APPRECIATE THE SIMPLE
THINGS –
START WITH SIMPLE
THINGS
No,
your nostril hair don’t make you
look like Dungeon and Dragon!
How
do you start your adventure of fun if you haven't done so in some time?
Begin
with simple things!
Take
a walk and enjoy that neighborhood, community or nature has to offer with your
full and undivided attention.
Take
up Yoga, Tai Chi, Aerobics, Weight Lifting or Stretching as a way to get moving
again.
Meet
interesting people while doing ordinary things.
Create
something...who says that you aren't an artist?
A
poet?
An
architect?
Take
out a piece of paper and a pencil and see what happens.
Go
to an art exhibit or a museum.
Discover
something new that will grab your interest.
Be
adventurous, creative, and active in your efforts to bring fun back into your
lives. Start simple, and then let FUN
flow from there…..not all things has to be Picasso in bikinis!
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Appreciating and
recognizing the arts, inside and out.
Appreciating the Simple
things in life……….
Art
helps us appreciate the simple things in life, no matter how small or big,
weird or normal.
Art
help us appreciate any moment, simple or complicated.
Art
help us aware and alerts us to all things, make us more sensitive to life,
Art
help us appreciate all things, help us appreciate life, the simplicity in life.
Being an artist help us recognize that any moment is a perfect
moment. Capture that single instance of
perfection through the eyes of the artist, and appreciate what might have been
an otherwise mundane and normal event through art. There are no ordinary moments.
Art makes us more aware, sensitive and appreciative of the life that's
all around us.
ART BLOWS! IMPORTANCE OF ART.—
Everyone Is an Artist
You already are an artist !
Everyone is born with a certain degree of creativity!
If you can pick up a pencil and sketch,
you are an artist!
What you draw no matter how pretty or
ugly is special!
It has your heart and energy in it! It
is an embodiment of you!
Draw something and share you today!
it is the most enriching
experience !
Creating something based on
your passion and sharing/giving it with others is
one of the pillars of the universe towards happiness.
Enjoy that creative rush!
And
enjoy sharing that Passion! Enjoy sharing YOU!
.HOP AROUND THE
GLOBE!
Travel and evolve!
Travel opens your heart and soul towards new culture,
experience, understanding and acceptance of different people, cultures.
Go Globetrotting in light speed.
Spend 2 days in every key world city and travel the world in
180 days! Discover Everyone, Discover the New You!
Blending
and Balancing your work and your play –
Yes, you DO need time to play! Squeeze out that extra time to recharge! If
you work all the time, you never get a break to gain a fresh and new
perspective. Increase your efficiency
and effectiveness at work through play.
Schedule time into your calendar to play. Play basketball, racket ball or soccer after work or on weekends. Shoot pool, play table tennis, play
cards. Squeeze in a game of some sort
at a local gym or at your company's recreation room at lunch time. Find a way
to fit it in. This is
non-negotiable! If you want to work
better, you have to balance your life with play!
Gift Yourself-
Identifying yourself to the world through your hobbies
SHARING YOUR HOBBY EQUAL SHARING YOU
What better way to share YOU through your hobby!
When you share your passions with others, you are also sharing YOU. .
Connect with others through your passions to find long lasting
relationships.
Hook up with someone that has the same passions.
Teach it to others.
Give advice, coach, mentor!
Learn from each other.
Grow rapidly together.
Find discussion groups on the web.
Post advice to message boards.
When you share your hobby, you are also sharing your personal
style, expression, energy and passion.
You will realize there is no better experience than sharing you!
Your
existence is a gift to the world.
You
have a unique perspective and expression that no one can duplicate and no one
can take away from you.
This
moment is called "the present", and you are this moment.
Therefore,
at every minute of every day, you are a present to those that get to work,
play, love and laugh with you.
You
are incredible and valuable to the world.
The
proof of that is the fact that you exist!
So,
share the gift of you with everyone you meet.
Show
them the best of who you are and what you have to offer.
Then
accept and appreciate everyone that is in your life, as they are personal gifts
to you as well!
Step 4:
SUCCESS
Two paths towards
prosperity.
• ❑ Need a job?
Head to www.monster.com. Would you rather work for yourself?
Check out www.entrepreneur.com. Have you ever believed that there
is nothing you could not do if you put your mind to it? Maybe you’ve dreamed of running your own
company, of becoming a master at something, or climbing the ladder all the way
to the top. Here’s the honest truth:
you were right and you can. If you’ve
made it this far, then you have at your fingertips today the link to every
available resource to get you to your goals.
First you need to get familiar with a few tricks of the trade and before
you know it the connections and offers will be coming to you. As soon as you take the time to investigate
your options, the results are sure to follow. Educate yourself, set goals,
network and collaborate with others to advance your career and passions.
A. CAREER – PLAN
: Love
it or leave it.
• ❑ : Loving what you do? As far as
we’re concerned, there’s no alternative.
If you are having any doubts about the source of your paycheck, then you
better find your running shoes and a pair of sunglasses. The fast track to a bright future awaits
you.
More than putting on that snoppy layered tie…..
GUERILLA JOB HUNTING
TRICKS –
Cover letter and
resume, the Interview Guide, thk you letter and followup, strong references,
radical networking to get that job
It
is time to get guerilla! No bellyrings or pokemon tattoos needed. Or any hulk
Hogan wrestling action figure. The old model of sending out a few resumes by
mail, waiting for a response, and then sending out a few more has gone the way
of the dodo bird. It’s time to press on
that accelerator and step up to the plate 。Write a professional looking, well written 1
to 2 page resume. Summarize your
experience in a well written, 1 page cover letter. Remember that the purpose of the resume and cover letter is to
get an interview. Select 20 or more positions that you will apply for right
now! Send out your resume and cover
letters via email or fax. Resume
blitzes work because when you send out 20
resumes and get only 3 responses, you'll focus on the 3 responses
and not the 17 non responses.
Send an email with your resume to everyone
in your address book asking them who they know that is looking for someone with
your talents with a request to forward your resume on. Contact people you used to work with, and
send your resume to companies you've interviewed with before. Attend industry events and networking
parties. Meet as many industry veterans , impress them on the spot and send
follow up letters. Log on to Facebook or linkedin and start networking!
Once you've scheduled an interview, make
sure you walk in with at least 10 questions written down. Ask for each
interviewers business card or get their email address. Send a thank you note to each person that
interviewed you.
Begin
follow up calls and emails after 5 business days. Reiterate your interest and
why you are qualified for that position.
Have the mindset that when you hunt, you come home with the prize.
Getting that job soon feel like that soothing breeze in the wind!
Cant
you see my color yet? BRAND YOURSELF
Did I tell you I got pass 251 levels in
donkey kong 1989 version?
Brand one of your strengths! Make yourself different! And memorable! How do you want people to
remember you after you meet them? How do you want people to introduce you? Decide, and make it your calling card! Pick a personality strength of yours that
you feel stands out naturally. Make a
point of shining that strength in a natural way, in all of your first
conversations, especially in job interviews.
For example, you could be the king of puns! And make sure that in every single conversation you deliver at
least 1 pun. Sometimes they are
hysterically funny! Sometimes they are
dreadfully corny. Make sure every time you are introduced, you are
mentioned as the king of puns. Figure out what you want to be king or queen
of? How do you want people to remember
you by? What exactly is YOUR brand?
PRECISE ANSWERS = SUCCESS
It was the doppy blinkie, not pinky that ate my junior pac man after the second power bulb!
Interviews are so much more
than just questions and answers. The
person interviewing you is trying to make a judgment in 30 minutes whether your
personality, fit within the company, expressiveness, assertiveness, and your
ability to do the job. Don’t ignore the soft skill stuff that the interviewer
is looking for. Know something about
the company using research from trade magazines, friends, or Google. Speak at a speed where your words are clear
and full of energy. Make sure your body
language is consistent with what you are saying and how you are saying it. Be honest and provide examples from your
experience that help prove the accuracy of your answer. Precise answers, fully explained with
examples, equals success.
Have a precise answer to every popular job interview qn. 100 %
preparation to all qns. No errors. 100 precise.
Being Flawless in Body language, Appearance, and your answers.
Full preparation for all interview qns related to the company and the
position.
1st rd of interview is usually from Human Resource director.
and second rounds by managers who is your potential supervisor.
Usually a same list of qns and factors on a tick sheet which they used
to qualify you. Cover all qn, factors.(Use Know them dead – interviews)
Using your archetype www.ere.net—default.asp
“The Control Freak’s Guide to Interviewing”
And read a classic book “knock
them dead – interview guide” – very very helpful and important!
Hitting the pavement running..
SELLIING YOUR
STRENGTH REPEATEDLY-
Look for the most
critical needs and factors the employer
is looking for.
And then sell your strengths as solutions to those needs.
Being Proactive; Beginning w/
the End in Mind; 1st Things 1st (7 Habits Effective)
In the "7 Habits of Highly Effective
People", Stephen Covey emphasized that effective people begin with the end
in mind, and they put first things first.
Before you walk into any interview, make sure you have a story that
sells your strengths. Address every
company needs toward your strength and how you will use your strengths to
fulfill those needs.. Put first things first and have a plan of how you will
address everything on your resume towards that strength. Spell your strength
everywhere and sell them with confidence! Good fortune favors the prepared.
B. CONNECT
YOUR 60second story
and A.D.D
60seconds! That’s all you have for your
elevator pitch ! Most peoples attention span is even shorter than 60 seconds!
In a society filled with information flux, most people are sick and tired of
listening and paying attention. So make that 60seconds the most powerful
presentation of you! Your resume and your strengths! Make sure you thoroughly
understand what the employers needs are. Your first opening statement must sell
your strength to that need without question or you have failed. Its all about
that first opening line, that first10 seconds ! If you do well, you earned
yourself another 50 seconds to finish yours sales pitch. Focus on how each one
of your strengths will solve the problems or needs of the company. Be detailed
and say it in utmost confidence.
Tell them how much revenues you could increase or cost you could saved. Tell them in
one sentence why your previous achievements, award, honorable mentions are best
for the job.Make it energetic, and captivating!
Once you master the 60 second pitch, you can
apply it anywhere, any time. Try it next time you bum into a stranger in a
bathroom or taxi stand! 60 seconds could change your life if you are prepared!
Radical Networking
While networking is the single best way to
find new opportunities, most people don't know how to network effectively. To network properly, you have 3 skills to
master: Introduction, Documentation,
and Follow up.
Go to as many career or industry conference
and events. Focus on speaking with the
right person. Waste no time.
Have plenty of business cards on hand. Have
a pen and pocket sized pad ready to do
research on your person. Ask them what
they do, who they work for, and any other questions that seem to interest you
as you hear their answers. When they
ask you about what you do, use your 60 second story. Ask them for their business card, turn it over, and in front of
them, make some notes about your discussion. Find out what their immediate
needs are. Note it down.
Send them an email or a quick call just to
thank them for the great conversation the next day. Let them know it was great to meet them, and then ask them
this: "What can I do to help
you?" Move from a potential
bothersome brown noser to problem solver with this simple question. Offer help
directly to their needs.
Follow up every couple of weeks with email
links to articles and books that might interest them. Send them ideas that you think they'll appreciate every once in a
while, let them know about your successes and active projects, and always be
asking, "What can I do to help you?"
Do
that enough and people will eventually turn to you first on any job openings. When you help enough people get what
they want, you end up getting what you want!
Maintain your
character at ALL TIMES
First impression counts, but back it up with character and follow thru
Don’t
eat that last orange raisin muffin!
After
you make that favorable first impression with your fellow workers, what comes
next to bolster that image for good?
How
do we make that first impression truly you and not just a one time show off?.
Back
it up with your character, with your words and actions.
Watch
your tact and tone, the promises you made and the message your body language is
sending
Be
respectful in all forms of communication at all times, and always think
carefully before you respond.
Be
honest, genuine, and truthful with every word you say. Fulfill your words with actions.
Deliver
solid results in time, all the time.
Be
consistent, as building trust requires predictable and consistent
behavior. Eliminate "try"
from your vocabulary.
Become known as a problem solver verses just being
a problem identifier. Never forget that
you are always in the process of making a first impression.
.
BUILD THAT FUTURE!-
STAY AHEAD OF THE CURVE!
Plan ahead, setting
goals, timeline small steps to advance bigger goal
Telescopes
and binoculars are not just for kids!
Success
comes when opportunity meets preparation .
Preparation
equals planning in details, setting goals, and taking those small steps to
advance your career.
Constantly
research your career skills and experience .
Take
classes to further advance your knowledge, thinking.
Stay
ahead of the curve by researching heavily on whats new and be an expert in it.
Read books and articles, on the web.
Go
to industry events to stay current .
Meet
older, more experienced mentors for guidance and advice.
Talk,
discuss, current issues with other colleagues.
Talk
to your boss on a regular basis on your weakness and strengths, and goals.
Maintain good solid relationships.
Ask
directly what needs to be done to get you to the next level.
Volunteer
in that area to get the experience you need.
Surf
that big new wave to the next level. Stay ahead of the curve!
You
mean my shrink didn’t predict this?!
C. ADVANCE
DARE TO BE THAT
CENTER OF ATTENTION! –
So how do you become the ultimate source of positive energy
and appear to be a local celebrity?
People are interested in the person who is interested in
them !
Have
an interest in meeting and getting to know people.
Introduce
yourself and remember the names and interests of the people you meet. Be expressive in telling real stories
Tell
stories using colorful language, metaphors, and body language.
Share
your thoughts, opinions on their interests, passions...
Before
you know it, you are that cool guy or girl everyone turn to !
Show
interest in everyone around you
Be that Sun where the planets orbit!
DARE TO BE THAT
CENTER OF ATTENTION!
CO-WORKERS
AS FAMILY, SMALL THINGS COUNT!
Infinite Happy Hour
Shopping for Co-Worker,
Chemistry and daily contentedness
More
apple martinis and beer pong!
It’s
no secret that we spend more time with our co-workers than we do with our
families.
Make
the best of it and consider your co-workers as extended family!
Pick
up a co-worker’s favorite candy bar.
Bring
in donuts or something else that can be shared.
Bring
back a small gift from a business trip for a co-worker just to say thanks for
helping you.
Bring
back tea or coffee for a co-worker when you go to Starbucks.
Share
pictures of your children, spouse or significant other with your co-workers to
connect.
Once you do, you may be creating a friendship that
lasts a lifetime.
Be Indispensible to your boss and co-workers-
Gift
Yourself-People like you;
You are engaging and valuable
What
is the best way to become indispensable to your co-workers and boss?
Help
them achieve their goals.
Offer
to teach co-workers a skill they need assistance with.
Be
available to peer review their work.
Listen
to them when they need to vent, and nominate them for various awards you feel
they deserve.
Take
work off of your boss' desk!
Establish
yourself as a contributor and a necessary part of your boss' team.
Offer
solutions to problems, and then volunteer to solve them.
The surest way to move up the ladder is to become a rung!
POWER of TEAMWORK with TACT
AND TONE –
SWEET
AND SENTIVE
COLLABORATION EQUALS QUICK RESULTS
It
aint just putting a bunch of super heroes and calling it the justice league!
Be
able to understand each person on your team.
And
their chemistry with each other.
Be effective at
team work, deepen that personal connection.
Learn
how they learn new information, how they like to be motivated, inspired.
Let
them know when they need to step it up.
Solve
or mitigate small problems before they become large issues.
Remember,
a team is nothing more than a group of individuals with varying personalities,
egos, talents, fears and motivating factors.
It
will be the use of tact and tone that will allow you to connect, motivate and
lead them.
You
have to conform to them, not the other way around.
Be sweet and
engaging to connect with people.
Avoid being
aggressive.
Find the middle
road of assertiveness.
Know when to be
patient and allow the right move to present itself.
Be aware
of other people needs before they can
truly connect with you.
Sweet and
sensitive is the archetype for connection
Teamwork – only
for that cocktail u owe me……
VOLUNTEER FIRST ! Be the Hero
that you are!
Be the first to step up and offer your
assistance!
Figure out what people need and be the
first to offer it.
Don't wait to be asked.
Surprise them with your love.
Premediate needs, problems and
constantly ask if anyone needs help.
Make tons of faithful followers in no
time!
Lend your helping hands to others, and
watch the helping hands come back to you when you need it the most
Help
others win and reap dividends.
Kick Me,
Please
WHAT
DO YOU THINK?” . Always Invite Criticism and not be sensitive at others
opinions The best way to improve and be loved
Have
you ever wondered how other people see you or the deeds that you do? Well, wonder no more ! Just ask! "what do you think.? People are usually more than happy to share
their thoughts and opinions. Ask a
variety of people what they think about your appearance, presentation, style,
and communications ability. Allow
people to provide an opinion from their perspective. Determine if you find truth in it or if it’s consistent with
other criticisms you’ve received.
Decide if you want to make any changes as a result of the information
you received. Know that its easier to
see the faults in others than to see them in ourselves. Don’t be sensitive at others opinions. You
need the honesty of others to become the ultimate you!
Getting Everyone to Say Yes to You. No More No's –
Create that win win situation for
everyone.
There is always a middle ground. Learn
to compromise on some issues. Don’t take no for an answer. Be patient. Be
persistent. Resolve all objections. Find the roots of all objections and
address them one at a time. Address their needs, negativity, and cause of
concern. Then fill in for their needs. Walk their dogs, buy them dinner to buy
time.
Remember that the major sticking points of any "no" usually
lie around cost, time, lack of benefit, risk, and sometimes personal
misunderstanding Understand who you
dealing with thoroughly. See your request through their eyes. Address their
questions before they ask them. Have
strong supporting data in your back pocket to back up all your claims. Make them believe it is their ideas to get things done.Convince them. With
details. Make them feel they will only win by saying yes. And soon there will
be nothing but yes.
Pump up yourself and
everyone around you –
bring out the best of
everyone!
Confidence,!
Positive
remarks!
Nothing
negative, make them feel important at all times!
Clap,
cheer, toast the champagne glass often, expect big things from them, inspire
with positive success stories.
Reward
generously with acknowledgement.
Praise
a lot, show faith and belief in their abilities.
Let
the bad stuff pass to focus on the positive.
Next,
make them feel super and all of you may become Olympians!
Impossible
is nothing.
ENTREPRENEUR:
Who’s the boss? YOU are.
• ❑ Visionaries welcome. If you get even more excited about writing
the rules than following them, let us put you hot on the trail to build your
company from scratch. Being your own
boss could be your best decision yet.
PLAN
What
business fits your personality, purpose, passion?
Being the Boss
Success in business =
success in Life first, serving others, improving others, being selfless
With Freedom comes responsibility! Did Spidey said that?
Being the boss is a whole lot tougher than throwing a few punches
and spinning a few webs.
It may be the best thing that
happen.
But the best thing in life comes with a price.
You will finally get the freedom to create the vision of
yours, do what you like most, hire
the kind of people you like to work
with.
But you will be stuck with lots of responsibilities.
Responsibilities to
overlook all aspects of the business, employees, problems big or small - in
details.
And don’t confuse your love with your business idea with running a
company handson.
Running a company requires doing a lot of things you may dislike,
for example managing people, doing marketing, taking care of customer
complaints.
If you are still determined for being the boss, get into a business
that fits your passion, purpose and personality.
Nothing beats creating a
company based on your vision and running it with utmost passion.
Be aware that success in running your own business is similar to
running your life. Be selfless, serve others first and always be eager to improve the lives of others. Understand
the needs of others endlessly and find clever solutions to their problems with
your utmost care and love.
Show them your passion.
Share your love of your business.
And success comes back faster
than you think, with roaring smiles and laughters!
The Big Idea
ALL IT TAKES IS ONE
GOOD IDEA! FILTER OUT THE WEAKER ONES, AND FOCUS ON ONE!
Focusing on the ultimate goal.
A robot to play psp with? Or
should we invent that fiber glass skate
board flying thru air? Have too many business ideas that you are passionate
about? All it takes is one good idea to make your mark in history! Focus on
the one that you are most passionate about, and that it fulfill your life
purpose and personality. Time and energy is limited when running a company. Do
not be overwhelmed by your enthusiasm for many ideas. Filter out the weaker
ones and focus on one.
THINK DIFFERENT!
Zig to Zag!
BRANDING, NICHE
AUDIENCE, GET INTO THEIR HEADS!
When all
your competitors are zigging, its time to zag!
Beat your competitors by being
different! Be different in your
branding and marketing. When everyone is mass marketing, maybe you should
customize and specialize! Be unique, refreshing in your approach. First , fully
research your customer. Be specific about your niche audience. Get into their
heads. Find out exactly what make them tick. .
See your offerings through their eyes
Then surprise them. Give them what they want plus more. Give them that
extra service, discount, special gifts
with your personal touch. Excite them. Make them curious. Make them buy on
impulse. Make it personal, cozy. Make your customers your family. Understand
their every need and concern. Its all about them! Make it irresistible. Make them want more. Don’t just follow the herd. Leapfrog all
your competitors by being uniquely different
Head to the Far Side- Go Fishing in
Unchartered Waters
•BE
BOLD IN YOUR IDEAS! TRY THE UNTRIED! WEIRD, UNTHINKABLE?!
When
it comes to branding, marketing and advertising, try to go nuts!
Hook 'em with ideas and improvements in areas/places no one
else dare to go.
Come out with a product no one think of.
Plan a marketing event that surprise everyone.
Think out of the box.
Make your customer curious and wanting more.
Make them go “wow!” and “huh?” at the same time.
Unique, but weird.
And unforgettable.
Being Lean and mean
Designing your Future
The key to success is planning.
Plan ahead, Foresee every step.
How to run a lean and mean shoestring operation – handson micro
management operation,
Maybe the cookie monster has a point.
Be lean and mean.
Why leave your success to chance?
Major corporations don't.
Neither do start ups that end up making a splash on the world market.
Plan your success, be efficient on cost, execute your plan, and
monitor your results.
Write a
well thought out and documented Management Planning and Marketing
Strategy document, which includes the following: Mission Statement, Objective, Company Structure, Policies and
Procedures, Organizational Chart, Employee Training Plan, Awards and other
Motivational Programs, Human Resources support, Technology, Management
Structure and Accounting. . Marketing
Strategy include Branding, Advertising, Investor Relations, Media Relations and
Guerilla Marketing. Find out the
importance of outsourcing to cut cost.
And other operational issues include Accounting, finance, legal and tax services, getting loans and
financing form banks, private investors, venture capital. Test your idea in a
mock marketing drive before getting a
patent.
Go to Tradeshows, conventions and industry events to
keep up to current trend- get a grip on
whats hot
Go to
entreprenuer.com for all of the below – its the best website with tons
of goodies!
Running
a lean and mean company on a shoe string
Importance of Outsourcing
Branding, Advertising,
Marketing
Accounting, finance, legal
and tax
Getting loans, investors,
venture capital
Testing your idea- patents
Directory of all business
and industries – pros and cons
Tradeshows, conventions and
industry events to keep up to current trend- whats hot
CONNECT –
The Three Wise Men
RECRUT WISELY
Recruiting your team of
entrepreneur, manager and technician.
• www.interviewedge.com The
Interviewer’s Edge, check out Select Articles
Could
it be the scarecrow, the lion and the robot?
The
number one resource of your company is its people.
You
can’t live without the good ones, and the bad ones can rob you of crucial
energy.
Losing
employees can also mean the lost of valuable knowledge, experience, training,
and your investment of time and money.
Recruit
the right person for the right position with the right personality that fits
your company culture and the desire for longevity.
Write
the very best job requisition possible detailing the experience, knowledge,
education, certifications and personality of the person you would ultimately
like to hire.
Get
a good 360 degree look at your candidates.
Be
prepared to reject far more people than you like.
Impress
on candidates that has long term potential.
Hire
a ceo if you are not that handson entrepreneur.
Strong managers of people are required as well as
strong technicians who understand your business inside out from a operational
standpoint
Showing and Mouthing Off
SELL YOUR VISION!
IMPRESS YOUR HIRES D
Don't hide your thinking.
Present it to the world...
Start
blowing that 5 feet trumpet!
Make
your vision a big and exciting one.
Then
sell it to your hires loud and clear
with utmost confidence and passion.
The
best way to attract top talents and good hires is to totally impress them.
Become
that company that is first.
First
to create a new product.
First
to create that new service.
First
to do something.
Become
that company that aims to be the biggest.
Become
that company that is new.
Become
that company that is ahead of the curve and is always on the forefront of change.
Excite
them!
Impress
them!
Make
your hires part of greatness!
Make
them feel they belong to a new great history!
Don’t stop till you hear their hearts pumping
wanting to work for free!
Universal Tongue
COMMUNICATE YOUR MISSSION, OBJECTIVES, STRATEGY WITH
CLARITY!
Convince Success through skillful clear communication. Be clear in defining
Success. Clarity=half way to success.
Clearly
define and communicate your mission, objectives and strategy.
Define the who, what, where, when, why and how.
Ensure
everyone is clear as to their role, the tools they will use to get there, and
how they will know they've crossed the finish line.
Simplify your message, post it everywhere,
communicate it often and excessively, and let 'em know in real time how they are progressing towards those
goals.
Buddy Buddy
NURTURING YOUR HIRES
– signs of a good leader.
Identifying, nurturing, equipping, coaching and realizing
value from them.
Make it fun and enjoyable, though
equality and friendship.
Get
them drunk, ask them if they are drunk, and then make them more drunk.
Never
let your new hire feel lonely!
Make
them feel like family.
Nurture
them with coziness and affection.
Take
steps to get them acclimated, entrenched, and engaged as quickly as
possible. Make sure their workstation
is completely set up, right down to the tools, passwords, telephone numbers,
and documents they'll need to start their job before they arrive. Set up meetings for them with people in your
company so they can learn what others are doing.
Introduce
them to every single person in your division or on your floor.
Assign
them a "buddy" that will be responsible for setting up lunches with
them and others around the firm.
Schedule
a happy hour or after work dinner at the end of their first week so they feel
accepted .
Make
sure they feel fitted in their group.
Talk
about how they will be monitored.
Discuss
it during your staff meetings.
Schedule
a celebration when they accomplish some or all of it.
Cover
their weakness and take advantage of their strengths!
Coach them well and everyday will feel like a celebration!
ADVANCE
SELL AND IMPRESS THE WORLD!
Creating loyalty How to
naturally wow your investors, clients and admirers.
Being aware of EVERY word you use. Use Quality words or
shut up.
Its time to create that oooh and aah! Put on that sales hat
of yours, roll up your sleeves! But most important of all. Watch that
tongue! Be aware of every word you say.
Use quality words or shut up! Make it exciting, compact, short and to the
point. Avoid the lengthy sentences and
redundant words that puts the ADD crowd to sleep.
Tell
them in absolute clarity how YOU can
help THEM get what they want.
Use
short and powerful sentences that address each need and competitive edge.
Demonstrate
how siding with you expand their business, give them better market position,
and allow them unique choices in the
industry.
Forecast
how you will bring them tons of cash, sales, earnings, market share!!
Solve
your customer’s problems, and make them look smart while doing it.
Give
your admirers something to talk about.
Introduce
new products and services with flare, fanfare, with great pomp and
celebrations.
Craft
your message, make it colorful and exciting, and go over the top with it!
You
can sell and impress the world!
Make
it irresistable!
Get
them drunk, mesmerized in your words, even in their sleep!
CATCH THAT ATTENTION!
CATCH THAT NEED!
something encouraging and powerful immediately to start off
on a great foot. Find that clients’ need ! A strong Opener is crucial- Use it
or lose it!
Powerful!
Colorful!
Stirring!
Capture
the audience in that first 30 secs!
Make
that first 30secs your best opening of your life!
Make
sure that 30 seconds cover how you will solve the persons need.
Start
well to end well.
Get
into the habit of using very strong openers in all of your communication!
It is the first words spoken that will determine if
the rest of what you say be read, heard or remembered
BE FASCINATING AND
MEMORABLE
Don’t
just be fascinating, make it memorable!
Embed
yourself and your message in the minds and hearts of your staff, team,
customers, peers and audience.
Move
them with passion and enthusiasm.
Anchor
that passion within them with a small memento that securely places your message
and your powerful presence in their memory.
Manage their memories so they know who you are,
what you stand for, and where you are going!
.BE AWARE OF A
LEADER’S RESPONSIBILITIES AT ALL TIMES!
Communicate
, inspire, manage!
That’s
leadership
Getting
someone that look like Captain Kirk
while you read comics in the bathroom
aint going to work .
Be
that Captain Kirk.
Whats
great leasdership ?
Getting
handson in accomplishing goals on time, understanding that perfect blend in
team chemistry, and making your employees as family that fights for the common
goals of honor and history.
With
their full hearts and soul!
Constantly
communicate the mission, objectives, goals, and strategies.
Inspire
relentlessly till they become family sharing your vision, moving forward with
great enthusiasm
Manage
that team handson, knowing exactly the strengths and weaknesses, and what makes
it tick.
Be
responsible for clearing the many obstacles as
they may move forward with velocity.
Be a
very good listener to correctly assess the situation and make wise decisions
for solving problems and improve team chemistry.
Constantly
improve yourself as a leader, as new situations will arise that will challenge
your abilities.
Care for the team, how the team interacts with one
another, how the team interacts with you
WORK SMART WITH TEAMS. –
Strength in numbers!
Right people for the right job?
Team chemistry. Human Resource skills.
Working together increases the odds of
winning together
It is no longer enough to put together
a team with the right combo of skills.
It’s the mash of chemistry that spell success or failure of teamwork!
Put people that chemistry compliment
each other, not clashes.
Master
that H2O and HGU in your team and
you
wont been surprised at how much laughter and productivity u get!
Step 5: HELPING
Helping others completes you---
love as a selfless energy.
▼ ❑ Get some. Give some. One feels ten
times better.
• ❑ To connect to those who need your help, head to www.guidestar.org. To find out what charities are audited and
efficient in spending your dollars, try www.charitynavigator.org.
At the end of the day, there is one person whom everyone adores. There is one person who wins the hearts of
admirers, who earns the respect of colleagues and bosses, and who lives ten lifetimes
fuller because of a lasting impact.
That same person enjoys the luxury of being the one to whom everyone
comes for advice. Wouldn’t it feel
wonderful if people come to you to help them be happy? Wouldn’t it be the greatest feeling to know
that you could provide some of life’s most extraordinary answers and changes,
almost like a superhero? We can show
you how to become this person or how to find this person. Need a helping hand? Have one to give? Collaborate with others to realize true happiness…….
“that love is a selfless energy
that encompass all, never partial, that until you complete others , you don’t
complete yourself. Completion of love
and self equal helping all others complete themselves”.
“the power of recognition
with helping others equals helping
yourself, as we are all the same as one
– crucial for achieving completeness of self and understanding of love and true
happiness…….”
HELPING:
CHARITY
www.guidestar.org
www.charitynavigator.org
www.charitychannel.com
www.globeaware.com
www.one.org
www.microplace.com
www.kiva.org
www.Oprahangelnetwork.org
www.vitaminangels.org
www.change.org
www.causecast.org
www.idealist.org
www.procon.org
www.responsibilityproject.com
www.globalethics.org
www.ansafrica.org
www.charityhappenings.org
A MENTOR
Sometimes,
advice is all you need.
To a lot of
people you are a genius.
Your talent and
knowledge are precisely what they are seeking.
We won’t say that
if you deprive them that you are being selfish with your wisdom.
But we will say
that if you share it, the world may remember you forever. Be a genius or
find one here.
Be Really Smart, Be a
MENTOR!.
Guess what?
YOU ALREADY ARE A
MENTOR IN YOUR DAILY LIFE!
Drive thru the dark tunnel
first before crushing thru the fruit carts in Fast and Furious 2 ?
If that’s how you advise your
buddy, u are already a mentor!
We are all mentors in our
daily lives.
Everytime you help someone
answer a simple question or question
related to our jobs, hobbies, sports,daily chores, we are already acting
smart and super – which is what being a
mentor really is.
Its not just about the joy and
respect you will get.
Everytime you mentor someone,
you learn more about your expertise through that reciprocal give and take.
It enhanced your memory and
thinking about your current level of expertise and new techniques.
Think about the best mentors
that help you in your life.
Give back to that mentor by
becoming an even better mentor for someone else. Share your insight, experience,through a few moments of your day.
Bring 100% of the best you
have to offer every time you mentor.
In the end, it will not just
be the life of the person you mentored that changed. You will forever feel the pride and joy through their accomplishment.
All sparked by your motivation, vision and relentless determination.
You will never feel better.
Or smarter.
Be a super mentor.
Mentor
everyone every time you get that chance.
DON’T JUST BE A MENTOR, BECOME A GREAT MENTOR-
QUALILTIES OF A GREAT MENTOR
Be a perfectionist, be detailed as mentor, teach the
right thing, be complete, admit mistakes, be proactive to correct.
Being Mr Fantastic sure beats Captain
Caveman!
So what makes a great mentor?
One
that helps others help themselves towards their goals with complete details
and determination.
Access
their strengths and weaknesses.
Listen to their concerns, doubts and fears,
and find ways to help overcome their weakness and bolster their strengths..
Inspire them through examples of people just like them that came
from humble beginnings and became great at what they want to accomplish.
Tell them what they need to hear.
Not what they want to hear.
Challenge them to go beyond their abilities.
Be complete, pay attention to details, and teach the right things.
Its so easy to teach
the wrong things as the wrong things seems right under different context or circumstances .
Correct your mistakes
quickly and apologize early to avoid
further negative effects.
Celebrate their success and help them learn
from their mistakes.
Approach
mentoring from an "arms length"approach to protect their
privacy
while still showing care, responsibility,
accountability and love.
The really great mentors can convince you to lift mountains and that the idea and
belief are yours! .
Inspire!
Challenge!
Reach!
Detailed!
Help them!
Plan to succeed from step a to z. !
That is the mindset of a super mentor. .
So are you ready to have some fun and be
super?
.
BE AWARE OF THE CAVEATS OF A MENTOR
.
That soothing bubbly joy of
mentoring doesn’t come without its own caveats. Mentoring requires patience,
dedication, perseverance when things are not going well at all.
And with people with difficult
personality or character, it requires a great level of tact and tone.
Know your own weakness as a
mentor and how it affects your student.
Be quick to admit to mistakes and correct.
Adjust immediately to avoid
misunderstanding.
Make sure to be detailed and
complete in explaining. .
Do not let your ego stand in
the way.
Admit that you don’t have the
answer when you truly don’t know.
Don’t make something up.
Nothing could be worse than
that.
Yes, it takes serious effort
to be super.
But
nothing beats the joy of being that super mentor!
No indifference to Different strokes!
DIFFERENT TACT AND TONE WHEN MENTORING
DIFFERENT PEOPLE
,Different
people, different strokes! Proper tact and tone, strategy and approach of
mentoring based on detailed understanding of the personalities, backgrounds,
and moods .
One person's motivation is
another person's turn off.
Everyone is different, and
must be mentored differently.
What worked for one person may
not work for another.
Tailor your mentoring plan so
that it is specific to the person you are mentoring
Determine what their triggers
are for motivation, listening, pride, and courage.
Use the words, tone and body language that is encouraging to
them. Mentoring is a 1 on 1
relationship.
So hit those drums with
different bamboo sticks till both of
you hear that same humm….
NEW UNIQUE WAYS TO MENTOR –
USE HUMOR, THE HYPNOTIC, the INDIRECT CONCEPTUAL APPROACH
Stop
playing Joker and Scrabby Doo!
Collaborate
with other mentors to come out with new techniques !
You
will encounter roadblocks while mentoring and have to think out of the box.
You
have to be creative and find what works.
Sometimes
people such as kids are resistant to being lectured as they feel offended or
being overly personal.
Indirect
approaches like humor , indirect comments, behaviors, body language can be
skillfully used to avoid being come across too heavy handed.
Its
not how much u say or what you say, its
what your tact and tone is alluding
that counts.
Use
the indirect conceptual approach.
Be
subtle, and hypnotically refer to your point with humor.
Power
of non verbal communications and conceptual verbal indirect techniques should
not be ignored and should used sparingly.
Use humor to break the
tension, get the person you are mentoring back on track feeling good.
Tell stories and make comments
that indirectly point them back to themselves.
Be unorthodox...exaggerate to
the point of being ridiculous!.
If it helps them get your points without being personal and offensive.
Try
new techniques ,keep an open mind - .there are no rules other than find what motivates and excites the person.
SEEK A MENTOR, COACH
, ADVICE
.DONT BE
SHY, JUST ASK—
FIND ALL THE HELP ON THE
WEB
Ask, and you shall receive .
Why try to be lonely and solve
your own problems?
Time is precious that could be
better spent smelling the tulips.
Why reinvent the wheel when the answer to your problems were already discovered long ago by
others.
Just ask for help!
Help is everywhere.
Especially with the internet.
Just log onto a website and
ask an expert about anything, anywhere, anytime!.
It could be work related,
relationship related or anything!
Ask for a mento regarding a topic, and you may even
end up with too many!! People like to
help other people...it'part of our nature, .
So, just ask..
Asking is easy.
Be ready to answer some
questions about why you chose them as mentors, your commitment, and what you
hope to gain at the end of the relationship.
Ask.
Just come right out and ask
them to mentor you.
You'll be surprised how many
people will be honored by your request!
Ask an executive at your firm,
a teacher or professor in your school, or a member of your church or community.
Ask someone you respect on
line.
Ask your friends.
Mentor each other.
Exchange expertise, knowledge.
What better way to make new
friend!.
The fountain of knowledge is always there if you just
ask!
SIMPLE , TACTFUL WAYS TO
ASK
One reason people
are shy to ask for help is they do not know what way to ask, or the proper
tact and tone to use in asking.
Just be simple, friendly and polite.
Do not fear that
the other person will be unfriendly as most people love to help anyone,
even a stranger!.
What better ways to make friends than to help a buddy in
need. So wait for that quiet moment and
just ask!
charity
▼ ❑ Doesn’t it just feel right?
Steal
something that you never thought you would have the guts to take: the hearts of
those in need.
Really,
giving can be as simple as donating a few hours of your time, a couple of coins
out of your pocket or the warm clothes you’ve outgrown that you already have
boxed up in your closet.
The
things that you’ll hardly miss might just be the things that someone else will
never forget.
Talk
about an easy way to make a difference
Why Get involved?
You already are.
Every single waking day, you are doing all sorts of astounding
things that make lasting impacts and cause rippling echoes in both individual's
lives and society at large.
It can be as unremarkable as holding the door for someone, or as
selfless as emptying the change from your pockets for someone in need.
Really, truly, if you begin to focus on finding satisfaction in
making the generous choice each time you need to make a decision, you
will suddenly become one of the most powerful influences on earth.
Far and away, the effects of your generosity will be felt and
noticed, and wondrous, new opportunities will be presented to you.
New reasons to laugh and smile, new forms of love and rewarding
forms of responsibility will be drawn to you, magnetically.
Trust us: you are already giving so many things, every day.
You just need to recognize
it and feed the crave!
Better to
give than receive-
MORE THAN ONE WAY TO HELP
Making
someone else feel good makes you feel good .
Strange.
Weird.
But
true.
That
warm cozy fuzzy .feeling.
You cant even stop feeling good even if you try!
Helping
doesn't always mean attending a rally, carrying a sign or building houses
(though all of those are awesome ways to help too!).
Donate
money.
It’s
the easiest and quickest way.
Contribute
your talent .
If
you have neither money or talent, just donate your time and effort.
Set
up events, mentor and coach others, track progress of goals, and lend your
voice to an important issue or voting opportunity.
Help
fundraise for charities or events.
Think
creatively and fill in where you fit in.
Doing one
good deed every day.-
more powerful than having that one apple a day.
Make it a daily habit to overcome complacency or
shyness, fear
Is
there any power in one good deed per day?
If
you doubt it, try some of these.
Pay
the portions toll for the person driving behind you.
Let
the person standing behind you in the grocery store line go first!
Hold
a closing elevator door open for someone running towards you.
Write
your waiter or waitress a short thank you note on the back of a napkin and
leave your tip on top.
Sincerely
compliment a stranger on an outfit that grabs your attention.
Buy
a burger for the homeless person outside of the restaurant.
Give
up your seat on the train or bus for someone that is elderly, pregnant, or that
just looks like they could use a seat.
There
is no shortage of good deeds that can be done everyday.
Doing
one has ripple effects that you cannot fathom.
Changing the world for the better = a surprising
change in yourself.—
SOOTHING
Rewards; doors opening; finding new friends & love; true calling;
rediscovering self
KAZAAM
!
Open
Sesame !
When
you try to change the world for the better, you changed your view of the world
and everything inside you!
Love
is a selfless energy that connects all.
The
connection gets stronger as you branch out.
Your
perspective opens up and changed .
You
begin to see opportunities where you previously see closed doors. Seek to change the world and you will find
new friends, deeper love, and richer relationships.
Relationships
redefined!
Love
redefined!
Your
views redefined!
You
redefined!
Completion
of You?
Completion
of love?
One
of the most selfless things you can do is to improve the world, which
ultimately improves you!
SMALL
SCALE CHARITY
NO
TIME? IT IS NOW EASY, CONVENIENT AND ALMOST EFFORTLESS
Ordering
that cape and costume couldn’t be more easy!
With
the web, everything becomes super easy and lightning fast!
No
joke, you could become that superman in
a few seconds! .
Cast
your vote in seconds to push for global issues
like solving world hunger at
one.org.
Donate
a few dollars to all the recognized charities on charitynavigator.org.
Join
charity groups and chat along to seek common solutions to world problems.
Mentor
someone on the web with your expertise.
All
you got to do is click those itchy fingers to be super!
.YOUR SINGLE VOTE OR DOLLAR COLLLECTIVELY WITH OTHERS
power of the individual= power of the collective.
You don’t need drink that
power potion!
Do not underestimate your power!
Your single vote or dollar
collectively with others is real power.
Andrew Carnegie once said, "I
would rather have one percent of 100 people’s efforts than 100 percent of my
own.”
There is power and energy in numbers.
Be 1 of 100 people donating $10 each
to generate $1,000.
Inspire those 100 people to tell
additional 5 people to make a $10 donation to grow that $1,000 to $5,000!
All you did was donate the cost
of a lollipop and ask a few others to
do the same.
It is not the size of you but the
cumulative size of all of you.
Your single dollar can start or
sustain a movement.
Your single vote has more super power
than you think!
IMPORTANCE OF ACTION vs
INACTION
as power of individual = power of
collective
In the middle of a wrong
that is happening, inactivity is a vote to keep the bad going!
Stop the bad!
Stop the wrong!
You must stand prepared to take action when needed to ensure that
the right things are happening at all times.
Respectfully speak up to your employers and they will respect you
for presenting your position.
Stand up to the majority
when you have a powerful point of your own to make.
Let the passion of your purpose overcome your shyness, fear and
complacency. Remember that you live a value-oriented life.
With morals and responsibility.
A life proud of living.
You know what's right and wrong.
Take action while the problems are small and manageable so they do
not evolve into bigger issues later.
Don’t take the lazy way out and do nothing.
Integrate action into your daily life!
Make it a daily habbit!
Help a stranger each day when you don’t feel like it.
Overcome that comfy feeling of doing nothing,
Commit to doing the right thing every time….it is always the ninth
inning – major league or minor league!
Sidenote:
ACTION vs
INACTION – IMPORTANCE OF DOING THE RIGHT THINGS AT ALL TIMES - courage to speak up against
superiors, consensus, avoiding laziness, complacency, shyness, fear
Having the right attitude:
We care about everything and everyone, even
strangers, as we are all family and friends in the end of eternity…….
Consideration,
respect and tolerance and acceptance for differences do not mean not
doing the right things.
Practice
doing without doing- not shying away from the problem but facing them
now.
Understand that minor problems could evolve into
bigger problems, understand the importance of perfection- constant strive to
perfect.
Admitting mistakes and correcting them instantly
INACTION
due to laziness, shyness, lack of time, money, stamina, stress, fear ,
inconvenience = lack of culture
SOLUTION – making charity a daily culture and habit,
doing one good deed a day, doing charity in grps
CHARITY IS FUN AND GREAT WAY TO MEET NICE PEOPLE-
When
like-minded people gather together around a common cause, different scoops of
smooth fluffy mashmellows get thrown into the mix!
Charitable
events have a unique aura, chemistry and are surprisingly fun!
Charity
auctions, celebrity appearances, games, dinners, or other social gatherings.
Fill your life with people that is like minded, who share your passion.
People
who put in that extra miles for the same cause!
Meet
new friends , even soulmates !
At your next charitable event, you never know what
u receive when you give!
CHARITY IS THE NEW SEXY, THE NEW
COOL AND THE TRUE ETERNAL YOUTH –
1.
Where
else in the world can the celebrity and the layman, the priest and the rocker,
the student and the NASCAR moms come together in unity?
Charity
baby!
Shed
light on world injustices and be seen as cool just as the celebrities do.
Keep
role models like Angelina Jolie and George Clooney in mind.
Deepak
Chopra wrote in his book "Ageless Body, Timeless Mind" that giving of
oneself can take years of aging away!
Give
of the gift of yourself to feel the
high and energy rush associated with good deeds!
Be
the new cool -not just look younger but feel younger. I
mmerse
yourself in the ooze of eternal youth!
Begin
Today!
.IT IS SIMPLE- JUST HELP THE
PERSON NEXT DOOR!-
the power of just helping one person and passing the effort
forward.
You
don't have to go far to do good!
Just
help the person closest to you!
Help
a stranger, a homeless!
Lend
a helping hand to your neighbors!
Help
them bring in groceries from their car.
Assist
them in painting their fence.
Dust
snow off their cars before doing your car
Make
a batch of cookies for them the next time you bake for yourself.
Buy
an extra coffee or burger everytime you buy lunch.
And
here comes the best part...
Want
to solve all charity problems?
Yes,
you have that power!
When
they ask what they can do to repay your
kindness, tell them to keep the good deeds rolling and tell them to help that next person closest to them!!
Pass
that effort forward !
Give with
no strings attached
The
best gift is one with no strings attached.
One
that is genuine, sincere, from the bottom of your heart and best wishes .
Expect
no thanks for it.
Be
100% unconditional and you will feel 100% happier
Do
not feel bad if your good deeds were not recognized and not appreciated or even
remembered.
Just
know that you did something great for someone else, and that's a gift back to
yourself!
Give
with no strings attached.
Give
anonymously.
Give
for giving’s sake!
And soon
you will feel the difference!
BIG SCALE CHARITY and
INVOLVEMENT
Be the
change you wish to see in the world
Maybe I would create that never ending mango red
berry milk shake smoothie and one day my surf board will be smart enough
to fly it to the hungry
……..
Stop
complaining and end that frustration!
Many
people sit back and ponder what the world would be like if someone would just
do "x" or if "someone" would step up and make things
happen.
Be
that person this year!
With
the tools on the web, its easier than ever!
And it takes just a little effort and time each
week!
Find
a charity or non-profit and make their work more prevalent in the world! Or Create that new charity or non-profit !
Use
the internet to get people excited about your idea.
Stop
being on the sidelines and start to play ball!
Be
the change you so desperately wish to see! Be super!
It’s
a bird, it’s a plane, its ………
MAKING CHARITY VIRAL –
make
charity a culture through the media. You are the ultimate media!
Create that ultimate buzz
and sensation about your charity or charity work through the media.
Through you!
With the advent of web 2.0, viral tools for easy word of mouth and
support is now under your fingertips.
Have belief in your organization and cause and make it viral!…
It's just a matter of time before everyone knows what you are
fighting for!
Write a blog, short twitter and spread
it around for comments.
Get everyone buzzing about them.
Look out for the viral effect and see
your charity membership grows!.
Make it fun, sexy, competitive, and
alerting other media/websites on your
fine doings.
Use the tools you have at your
disposal...the internet, writing press releases, creating grant proposals.
Bring in some local celebrities to speak
on your charity's behalf and give those that attend a chance to speak with
them.
And why cant charity be competitive like a sports or business?
Make your charity competitive!
Let the best talent from the business
world compete to come out with the best ideas in charity or best results.
Coordinate with other like minded
charities, and start telling your charity mount everest epic adventure thru the press!
Make these viral -
Stress the importance of accountability
of reputable charities at charitynavigator.org
Help others realize
the power of “one help one to
pass the effort forward!”
--Mathematically if one person will help just one other person, most charity
problems would have been solved.
Help others recognize
that helping others equal helping yourself!
The Perfect World Series – what creates the Perfect World?
Helping others as culture, first nature . And proper etiquette and
proper culture.
.THE PERFECT
WORLD –
CHARITY as CULTURE,
WAY OF LIFE, FIRST NATURE, FIRST
THOUGHT
Want to know how to fill
happiness in every second of your life?
Make charity your first
nature, way of life!
The next time
you see an opportunity to help someone in any way , seize it!
Do that and you
have seize happiness!
Do not let your
fear, shyness, laziness stand in your way!
Don’t make that
excuse of not having time!
Nothing could
be easier to be super!
Solve that
problem for others without hesitation.
Get used to
solving problem for anyone!!
Make it a
habit!
Or better, make
it a hobby!
Do that one
good deed per day!
Do it in group
of friends to overcome shyness or fear.
And soon you
will find solving your own problems in life no longer cost you a sweat or a scratch!
Stress no more!
Headaches gone!
Just pleasure
and happiness!
Doing without
doing!
The secret to
happiness.
Make helping
others a culture, your first nature today!
Being super could not be more easy!
Hey sweetie angel, how about we share that last 5 sour cream burritos
between me, you,…. me,…. your friend, and …me ?
Proper
etiquette – PERFECT WORLD
So what etiquette makes up the perfect
world?
First incorporate politeness, respect,
tolerance, acceptance and full consideration of others in every speech or
action.
Never forget your manners.
Give respect to others by listening,
offering assistance, providing help when needed, and focus on doing the right
thing every time.
Show tolerance of the ignorant and help
the intolerable see the value of tolerance.
Accept those that are different who live
a lifestyle different from yours
Focus on your tact and tone, body
language.
Don't assume you know what others are
thinking or feeling.
Always double check before talking
Rather than believing the gossip or the
buzz, go find out for yourself before reacting to something that doesn't exist.
Being responsible comes down to
having proper etiquette !
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What u mean it aint perfect!? You mean my left butt looks bigger
than my right butt?
Proper
Culture- THE PERFECT WORLD
Never were we so close to having a
perfect world.
But we were never that far from being
one!
Over the time of history, we forgot our
first nature we were born with.
Lets recall love and compassion as our
first nature, way of thought, way of life.
Let
our love and compassion take over our ego .
Practice positive criticisms which means if one would to criticize others,
one should only do so with a positive attitude by providing positive advice and willingness to help improve the situation or correct the perceived wrong doings of
others. Negative criticism of others out of mockery, frustration, anger,
viciousness and other negative intentions should never be deemed proper.
Take
positive action over complacency.
Choose
action instead of procrastination.
Do the
right things at all times without hesitation.
Connect
to the selfless energy of love.
Recognize
that our talents kept to ourselves are no talent.
Help
others at a moment notice!
Help
others help themselves.
Empower
ourselves by empowering others.
Understand that
love is a selfless energy that encompass all, that we are all connected and the same, that all our
actions are collective, that we don’t complete ourselves without completing
others, that all strangers are friends and family.
I know u are criticizing me
positively…..yeah?
COLLABORATE
Quit playing
with yourself
The web is worldwide. Millions of people share your ambitions.
Get together with like minds and accomplish any project, large or small. People
are your greatest assets. Check out the project incubator, join a team, create
a movement.
COLLABORATE WITH WIKI!
POWER OF TEAMWORK FERRARI SPEED, ORGANIZE EVENTS IN A FLASH!
getting familiar with the
potential of the web,- join web
Groups to collaborate your efforts for
non profit causes. = collaborate with others on anything! From
various company or organization project to various Charity non –profit
movement! From the smallest one
time project to anything huge and long
lasting!
Put your super power at wasp Ferrari speed.
Nothing is faster than joining a facebook or Ning grp to grow a
charity movement! Grow your members and plan the event timeline, features, and
activities.
Break down the timeline to think through everything and everyone
you'll need to support it. !
Collaborate with individuals, groups, companies on any small or
large projects, all without leaving your laptop!
Put teamwork on steroids!
Use the web for fast
results!
CREATE YOUR OWN NON PROFIT MOVEMENT OR
JOIN ONE
CONNECT THE BEST TALENTS! THE BEST CAN FINALLY MEET!
With
the web, everything comes easy.
Its
only a few clicks away.
Some of the biggest charities and non-profit movements started from
kitchen tables all across the country.
You don't need to start with a lot of money, lots of people or with
celebrity backing. Start with YOUR dream.
Contribute to the world.
Relieve or resolve a major social
problem that’s close to your heart.
Be clear in what it is you want to do and how you want to do it.
Communicate your plan to others so that you can start to build your
rolodex of supporters.
If you lack the time, find
an organization that is similar to your
idea or mission. You will be surprised how many of these organizations are already in place
Then, volunteer, get involved, and even take on a leadership
position.
Or be a strong coordinator!
Bridge and coordinate the
talents/resources between non-profit and for-profit/public community, between
the venture capital world, private equity, management consulting world, - to
synchronize the brains and efforts to promote efficiency and barter of
services/resources and elimination of excesses in the charity world.
Think of that golden Cadillac, that raw
collective power collaborating for the non-profit!
Step 6:
LOVE
▼ ❑ : Outdoing your wildest dreams.
• ❑ FINDING AND REDEFINING LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS
Since the beginning of time, love has been a mystery. While we, too, are human, we also possess a
very rare and completely foolproof method for achieving love, true love, of the
most sensational kind. Of course, you
already have the talents and the words to make this possible, and we can point
you directly down the path towards your soul mate and towards the most
harmonious, productive relationships with your family and friends. Not only does our advice work with your most
intimate relationships, but it will also have your co-workers and perfect
strangers marveling at your power. Do
you want to possess the greatest gift of all time? Finally, pursue romance and
redefine relationships with the ability to be the ultimate lover and friend.
Sites for LOVE
Lots of Facebook apps to test relationships and personality fits
everyone
▼ ❑ Groove with the whole party.
• ❑ : People are insanely valuable. They all have substance. They all have ingenious nuggets of
information or crazy stories to share with you and most of them are waiting for
you to strike a friendly chord that inspires the next level of comfort. It would be pretty amazing if every human
encounter you had suddenly became a beneficial one, right? You have everything to gain recognizing that
no matter how different people may seem, most of us are pursuing a few, common
goals. You can help them, and they can
certainly help you. Make the conscious
decision to go deeper with people and you will quickly find that mutual respect
means unlocking doors to all sorts of rewarding experiences. Eliminate awkwardness and frustrating
confrontations while applying our approach to your every encounter. You might never stop smiling. ……
EVERYONE
Importance
of loving Everyone –Path to Rediscovering You.
The Completion of love
what
model do we use to love everyone? Even
strangers?
How
about like Family? Our own brothers and sisters.
All
problems end when we treat EVERYONE as our brothers and sisters.
Treating people with love
and respect begets love and respect
Its all about treating others the same way you like to be treated.
It's what anyone--from bums to the important--really wants. People like nice people
At the end of the day, we are all
looking for love, respect and acknowledgment. .
Give love and respect freely and, they
will be returned to us. Look for
the things to like about a person, not for things not to. Accept that some of the people you show love and respect may not
return that same love and respect. Its ok. Be unconditional. Be willing to give everyone love and respect
because of who You.are =A loving person
who respects everyone. \
Be nice.
Who we are determines how we see others
Being Guitars and Drums-
bringing the same happiness
WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT AND
YET THE SAME! CLEBRATING DIFFERENCES
Different
we are in race, culture, character, thinking, life styles! Yet deep inside, we are all the same. Same
in seeking those same things in life – love and happiness. It is the
differences among us that makes us lively, colorful, and exciting.
Collectively. Allow differences to be a source of fun, knowledge,
collaboration, and respect. But lets not just Respect our differences,
lets tolerate our differences. Because
deep inside, we are all brothers and sisters.
Yes, each and everyone.
Lets recognize, accept and celebrate our
differences! Lets pool our collective
energy towards common beliefs like love and happiness. Lets dip into that
smiles and laughter of love and happiness that knows no difference.
APPRECIATE EVERYONE!
HOW TO – Lend a helping
hand- pass the effort fwd, be proactive – ask if they need help!
What
are the simplest ways to appreciate everyone including strangers? First, just
remember their names! When you remember someone's name, it makes quite an
impression on people! Shake their
hands, look into their eyes, and repeat their name to them. . Sincerely compliment what they are doing,
how they look, or their positive attitude Find something to like in everyone
you met.. Thank people for the good
deeds they do. Ask them if they need help or advice. Tell them to pass the
effort forward to another stranger instead of returning you the favor. Appreciate everyone , make new friends, and
in a flash, your life feels pina
collada frothy heaven!
No, I am not trying to look
like Eddie Murphy…
START WITH A SMILE
Nothing is simpler and more powerful than a smile! Smile to brighten your
day and wake everyone up. Wake them up with
that positive soothing energy. Smile to everyone. Everyone you know. And
those you don’t. You be wondering how you make so many new friends in so short
a time Smile to break the ice.
Smile during a tense situation. Show interest in people you find attractive
through smiling. Indicate agreement or
respectful disagreement. Relieve stress
for yourself and tension for others!
Display comfort and confidence through big and frequent smiles. Smile to feel better and to make people feel
better about you. Start your day with a
smile, start every interaction with a smile, and start every new endeavor with
a smile. Become known as the person
that is always smiling. Only good
things can come from smiling!
WATCH
THAT TONE!
Never
use a hammer when a fly swatter will do! Always be polite when asking for help
and give every stranger that respect and you be surprised how easy it is to get
things going your way! Be tactful! Watch your tone and body language!
Nothing ever need to be harsh.. Be respectful and people will accept almost
anything you have to say. Take it down a notch and give people the benefit of
the doubt. Smile to yourself before
speaking to create a lighter mood
Discuss instead of attack. Use your tone to send the proper
message. Watch that tone, or people
may misinterpret what you are saying! Always collect more bees
w/ honey than vinegar.
Ok….. I did see that new pimple on your right face this
morning…
FULL CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS, THEIR PERPECTIVES
FIRST
Put yourself in other people's shoes
instead of throwing eggs and tomatoes!
Before diving into criticism, put yourself in their perspective. Figure out why they see the world as they
do. Present your perspective in a way
that they can relate and accept.
Understand their perspective first, allow yourself to see their point,
and then decide whether you agree or disagree.
Before any small or big decisions,
always ask yourself if you have consideration for all others , at all times. Are you intruding their privacy, lifestyles, causing harm to anyone? Is
there a way to do things that will
please everyone, is there a win-win for everyone?
You will be surprise life
will be fast sailing, with much less conflicts and arguments when you put
Consideration first!
LOVE THEM MORE THAN YOU
LOVE YOURSELF- everyone as family, brothers/sisters
Treating others better than they treat you is an opportunity worth
taking? .
Most of us wait to see how others will
treat us before we determine how much we are willing to do for them. Scratch that! Treat others better than they treat you from this day forth. Love
everyone as family, brothers and sisters.Be larger than life.Be a person others
aspire to Stand taller than others,
regardless of what they say or do to you.
Rise above negative treatment.
Be the incredible person that you truly are. Be super!
CO-WORKERS
The most valuable play.
• ❑ Get ready for your new title.
It’ll read something like, “The life of the party, 9 to 5.” That’s how your colleagues will begin to see
you after you apply these helpful suggestions.
Not to mention the fact that your productivity level will go through the
roof and your weekdays will start to feel like weekends. We’ll teach you how to be deliberately
decent and become an industry hero.
Extra rum in your latte?
the MAGIC THANK YOU -
Don’t
forget the power of appreciation! Remember that most employees get disgruntled
due to lack of recognition for their efforts. Say thank you. Sooth those egos. Let your co-workers and staff know how they directly contribute
to the bottom line. Say thank you
publicly, timely, sincerely, often and in details. It’s not enough to just pay someone. Thank them profusely with
sincere passion. There is no better way to appreciate and motivate someone!
COLLABORATION EQUALS QUICK RESULTS AND
TEAMWORK
When does 2 plus 2 equal 5? When
hardworking and motivated people come together with a common goal and skills
that complement each other strengths and weaknesses . Achieve more through
collaboration! Put teams together with the right mix of skills, vision, and personalities. Give them the goal, a
timeline and the definition of success for their task. Then, stand back and
watch the magic. Be amazed at the quick results from the unique chemistry of
teamwork!
No , we are not elvis and the
chipmunks……..Now throw us that dollar!
ENCOURAGE, COMPLIMENT, FLATTER, SHARE! ❑
Relationship building is a skill that
will often bring you further than a Phd degree! Nothing builds relationship
faster than a mere compliment, a
sincere encouragement, and a caring attitude of sharing your knowledge and
expertise. Create lasting bond by
providing support to another. Let them know that they are competent and
capable. Be vocal about the things they do that impress you the most. Let
others know about their impressive displays of skill. Offer your assistance so
that knowledge is freely shared between you. When you give your support, they
will support you. Unconsiously, lovingly and fully.
GIVE
THAT CREDIT! PRAISE OTHERS
Never fear having your praise stolen;
If not for his kickass head butt and his drunken
fist, we wont be alive ! Don’t take all of the credit when your team achieve
success. .Spread that credit! Pass it on! Thank each and every team member.
Mentioned each person's name, what they did, and why it was valuable. Give your most sincere appreciation for
their efforts. When you give credit, people will not only work their tails off
for you, but they'll return you the favor
multiplefold.. Reap huge benefits of a modest reputation; make sure never to
accept another's compliments deserved
.The most powerful person in the room is the one that thanks the most people.
LEARN TO LEAD, SHOW THEM
WHAT IS POSSIBLE
Be
bold and hop in front! Be a
Role Model .
Have the courage to step forward at times and
lead and speak with clarity and passion. Set
the example of good leadership for others to follow.. Get totally handson
and be willing to jump in and get
your hands dirty in any situation Show them what is
possible... Sharing knowledge and
skills freely. . Learn to feel no
resistance when it comes to leading and sharing. Be Tactful when overcoming resistance. Remind them often that they can and will succeed.
Instill confidence in them so they will have confidence in themselves when
overcoming obstacles. Be aware of your TACT and
TONE. Your tone and actions reflect
you! Put on a big smile each day to show your confidence and and spread your
positivity. Acknowledge and Compromise concerns on different view points but
tactfully assert your decisions and actions.
friends
Polishing your treasure
makes you shine.
• ❑ Sure, a friend is someone with whom you have shared almost
everything. Adventures, embarrassments,
skittles and underwear…..But even the
oldest and truest of friendships can be taken to the next level….. Let us show you how to transform hanging out
with your pals into an experience that makes each of you better, stronger and
smarter. You can actually tap into each
other’s talents and energy. Kind of
like osmosis at warp speed.
How to have your own entourage
in no time
BE
A GOOD FRIEND – LISTEN
1
Want to know how to make lots of friends instantly? Then find out
the greatest gift you can give to a friend. That gift is to Listen. Try to
focus on your friend. Listen more to their problems, perspectives, not yours.
Try to be in their shoes and help them solve their problems, and suggest new
ideas. ..
Find out their needs, desires, likes, dislikes
You will be the greatest friend if u do this all
the time
Hi,
Quepasa, NiHow, wieGatz, konichiwa….i forgot what u speak, so….huh…..whats that?
DROP LINES, STAY IN TOUCH
ALWAYS
Never let new bonds whither and die.
Relationships can be difficult to develop.. Nurture and pay attention to new relationships. Send your friends
occasional emails and text messages. Start a chat session with them while they
are online. Send them a free or low cost e-card on their birthday, anniversary
or to congratulate them on a recent accomplishment. Call them! It's not hard to stay in touch. So, what are you
waiting for?
Do you know that there is
about one special day per week such as earth day, pets day, best friend day to
celebrate about? Find a reason to stay in touch. Send a Funny, humorous picture on sites like photobucket.com to perk
up anyones day!
You have a fat ass! NO..sorry.. I mean you have a fast lace in
your shoe..
REVEAL THOSE
FEELINGS
That
emotional connection is the glue to all
friendships.
Be
willing to discuss that naked deep
feelings to deepen the relationship. Don't be afraid. Trust them with your deepest
emotions and they will eventually trust you with theirs. Create a much stronger bond each time you
relate your feelings. The more u relate and
discuss these feelings, the more
attached those friendships. Be real, stay real.
Staying true to ones feeling
BEWARE OF YOUR TACT ND TONE, DEEDS YOU DO- MUTUAL RESPECT
❑
Your friends become better with you, by you, through you. They watch and follow you subconsciously……..
You mean I cant dig my nose? Dig my
ears? Scratch my ass. Scratch my…..
Your words and actions are being watched
more than you think. Watch your tact and tone. Be aware that words are slippery
and can be changed or misunderstood. Let your deeds say who you are. Show the best of who you are each and every
time. Be an example for others to follow. Live from your values and honor your
commitments.
I will whack your ass to gain your
respect
CELEBRATE SUCCESS AND
FAILURES TOGETHER
Don't be a fair-weather friend! Likewise,
don't be an emotional dumping ground. Be a true friend. Be present for all of
life's ups and downs. Become as dependable and solid as a rock. Become the
person your friend turns to first. Celebrate that relationship. Smile together
through life's successes. Hold on to one another through life's failures. Find
the lessons in both...together.
. MAKING YOURSELF SUPER BY SHARING
YOUR STRENGTHS
Share
your strengths with your friends at a moments notice. Volunteer your strengths
and knowledge every chance you get! Remember that the strengths of ones friend
make up for the weaknesses of another. Eliminate
each other weakness while boosting yourselves to greater accomplishments Create a symbiotic relationship of dependability
rooted in love and friendship. Make each other super.
The best of a solid friendship. Share yourselves to victory!
family
▼ ❑ Warmer than hugs, kinder than kisses.
• ❑ Wouldn’t it be a gas if you and
every member of your family were, like, totally cool with one another? Like, the next thing you know, Mom doesn’t
mind doing you that favor and Dad is all smiles and the siblings are all
buddies and the extended family couldn’t embarrass you during a holiday dinner
even if they tried? That’ll never
happen… unless you sack up and test out our methods. They’re guaranteed to decrease stress and name-calling. What’s more, you can help some of the most
important people in your life find dream-quality happiness
Here is my 20 day old green
dolphin jellybean for your binoculars……
GIVE TO RECEIVE = GIVNG and GETTING RESPECT-
Our
elders deserve more than respect! Keep in mind that they have raised us, taught
us, and paved the way forward for us.
Keep in mind that they made it possible for you to learn life lessons
without having to experience them yourselves. Learn from your elders, as they
are your own living and breathing encyclopedias. Tap them for every bit of knowledge they have. Learn their
history, life lessons, mistakes and triumphs, goals, dreams, and experiences.
One day, you will be an elder as well.
Before dealing with your elders, consider what respect you expect from
anyone around you. Then give your
elders that same respect and more!
TACT AND TONE
Be that soft fluffy mashmellows in that hot
chocolate! Its easy to forget to be sensitive in your words with your family
since u bond with them each day. But don’t overlook it. Your family is
especially sensitive to what you say and how you say it. Be aware of not just
what u say, but how u say it. Body language and attitude is more important than
what is said, One small sigh can spark
a Battle Royale that lasts for days, weeks and sometimes a lifetime. Think before you speak. Consider how your family will receive what
you have to say. Craft your message so
that it is received the way you
intended it.
Avoid Miscommunication - Screwing up is always the result of miscommunication and sour
tone. Always watch your tact and tone, attitude, body language.
When angry, don't respond
right away...collect your thoughts, settle your emotions, and then
respond. Make sure your body language
and tone is not aggressive, but consistent with how you would like to deliver
your message. As much as we think that
we aren't all that important in our families, the things we do and say have a
huge impact. You are much more
important to your family than you probably know. Use your tact and tone to improve relations, express love, and
assistance.
-
Can u please remember to remind me to please ask you
using the word “please” please?
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
Nothing is more
harmonious than a little emotional
intelligence at all times! Being
sensitive at your tact and tone and
having that ability to sympathize with
others brings harmony and stability in all life relationships.
The
ability to manage your emotions and understand the emotions of those you care
about is a major factor in how they will interact and think about you. We all decide emotionally and justify our
decisions intellectually. Therefore, we
have to put more emphasis on the emotional expressions and impacts in our
family lives. Help your love ones
understand it is ok for them to express their emotions. Point out to them when their expressions are
socially acceptable and when they are out of control. Talk with them about the triggers that spark high emotions so
they can understand how to lower their
emotional intensity. Then ensure you
are demonstrating the correct degree of emotional expression and control through your interaction with the rest of
your family. Become the voice of peace
during family squabbles. And when you
are a participant in the squabble, slow down, drop the intensity, control your
tact and tone, and find resolutions that respect their emotions.
No, the ants are not
becoming the mighty atom ant…….but
SMALL THINGS MATTER
Small things do have giant
impacts! Often the best things takes the least amount of time and effort. .
The small things do matter to our family members,. Small surprises; little
favors; kind words, small gifts of appreciation... Congratulate your family
members on a recent accomplishment in front of others. Remember their interesting stories and
re-tell them to other family members.
Encourage them to pursue their dreams, ask them about their progress,
and ask how you can help every time you see them. Listen to them when they are speaking. And confirm you are
listening by repeating what they said.
Give freely to your family with no expectation for reciprocity. Drop them an encouraging email, text
message, hand written note, or card every once in a while to let them know you
are thinking about them. These may be
small things in terms of effort, but they sure pack quite a punch! Do them often, do them consistently, and do
them because you love them.
Life is about small things. Small words and surprises. All very
lasting……
Stop eating my sandwich. Its made of acai aloe butter..it s not
good for kids….
BE
A ROLE MODEL, MENTORING EARLY AND CONCISELY
You are the
model of the world. The younger ones in your family will watch, copy,
follow, duplicate, and listen to everything you do at their early ages. Then, they will use the map of the world
they received from you, plus their individual experiences to create their
beliefs, attitudes, and ways of processing new information. Be a model for the younger ones as they like to
imitate what you do but not as much as what you told them. Explain why
you do certain things that they take an interest in. Teach them to think independently, not just copy what others do. Let them know that the
experiences they are going through are similar to the experiences you went through,
and tell them personal stories to back it up.
Be eager to listen to their
stories, issues, questions, and opinions to gain their trust.
Reduce the confusion about the things they are
going through, the emotions they are feeling, and the role they play in your
family. Raise them to a higher level of understanding, respect, and independent thinking ability !
COURAGE TO APPOLOGIZE EARLY – YES, I did use
that kiwi shower gel and your rubber ducky
Have the courage to apologize
early. And be proud of it.
Not because u admitted to
your mistake or behavior.
But because u have the
brains to realize the importance of
apologizing swiftly.
Do not procrastinate.
Apologize now. Today!
Be discipline about it.
Just because its between
family members doesn’t give you the
right to procrastinate or think lightly about.
A small misunderstood grudge could grow into
uncontrollable snowball of emotions.
Don’t presume the family
member wont mind the negative behavior
or situation just because of the strong family bond.
Avoid any negative
miscommunication, arguments, intense discussions.
No conflict is worth
sacrificing even a minute of your happiness with a family member.
Especially when mommy’s
lobster stew with that extra mix of white wine is at stake!
Apology is not a sign of
weakness. To apologize is to be the
bigger person that takes the higher road.
Apologies change the course
of conflicts to the pathway of repair.
Acknowledge
that the other person makes good points, but that you simply do not agree with
them.
Thank
your family member for showing you a different way to see things,
and
stop trying to change their minds towards your way of thinking.
Accept
that you can disagree without being
obvious..
Finish
your arguments, apologize early, give them a hug, and keep it moving!
Be
the bigger person that you are!
Not just marbles and jelly fish
It is not funny when there is no laughter so stop laughing at not
having fun!
LAUGHTER AND FUN COULD BE
WORKED ON
Laughter, jokes and fun bring
out the best of our uninhibited sides! Feel the sense of
closeness and bonding achieved in those
moments. Its those moments that
everyone remembers and storytell years
down the road.
Memories.= Priceless. Good
pleasant memories nothing could replace.
Work on having those deep
experience. Plan it so it happen more often. We often took jokes and laughter
for granted, thinking they happen naturally. But they could be worked on. And
should be. Think about the types of
things the majority of the people in your family enjoy talking about and doing,
and then talk about them and do them with your family. Plan fun things to do. Bring up past stories of fun times to
trigger a new discussion. Discover
other things your family is interested in doing, and then make it happen. Its time to create that new moments with
your family that will become a lifetime memory of fun and laughter!
Beyond family- amigoes
not not just for mexicans
FAMILY MEMBERS ARE FRIENDS
Underneath that different
façade of every person, regardless of age and
personality, lies that kindred
spirit that seeks happiness and friendship –the same things that everyone
seeks. In every relationship, its all about friends! From the beginning to the
very end of life, whether its soulmates, co-workers, buddies, and even
strangers, we all become not just good, but great friends!
Your family members are no
different! Be close buddies with everyone! Just because there is an age
difference and a certain layer of family chemistry doesn’t mean you cant be
great friends.
Nothng beats family as
friends! , When push comes to shove, your family will defend you to the hilt
against any aggressor! At the end of
the day, your family is a great source for friendship since no one keeps your best interest at heart
more than they do. Reach out to a
family member that you have lots of respect for . Let them know that you value
their opinions and ask them for their advice.
Find out if they need help with anything, and then be there for
them. Confide in them and let them know
that you trust them with your secrets.
Be there for them every single time they need you. Never be judgmental of what they tell you,
and be honest with them when they ask for your advice (keeping in mind tact and
tone of course). You can't choose your
family, but you can choose to engage them as friends and elevate your
relationship to a new level.
So work on it. Make your
family your new best friends.
Gee…daddy…how many Viagra did
u take?
LEARNING WHILE HAVING FUN!.
–
It is not just all about arm wrestling
!
Learn from each other, Correct each other mistakes. Complement
each other strengths and weaknesses. Growing together……
No
one in life could be a closer buddy
than your brother or sister! As you are moving through life together, learn
every step of the way! Have fun! Laugh
together, and then remind one another about
interesting past memories. Plan activities together. Support each other in your dreams,. Help
each other achieve them. And have fun doing it. Take a class together, study together and challenge each
other. Hang out, review old pictures and laugh about the lessons you learned
together. Grow and learn together, and
laugh the entire time! Life couldn’t be more high!
.
soul
mate
▼ ❑ The new you will
rock all of your socks off.
• ❑ : Introducing our foolproof recipe to a fun-filled, action-packed,
intoxicatingly sensual relationship with your companion. Stimulate, titillate, and hardly wait
another minute before you find yourself drowning in the kind of pleasure that
only you could prescribe. It’s not all
about sex, either. Actually, it’s
mostly about rediscovering yourself and experimenting with satisfying your
partner in some interesting, psychological ways. You know, crazy stuff like that.
Here's the kicker: the truest, perpetual form of love requires a healthy
amount of giving, not just between the
two of you, but by sharing yourselves with others. Once you begin sharing your combined love with the world, the
world will love you back and leave you
each day craving that cherry martini with melon slice….
SOULMATE
Rediscovering
Yourself,
your soulmate,
and
the love between the two
“ the importance
of loving others, everyone – how it affect u and your relationship with your
soulmate. Completion of love versus partial love”
Huh? Sounds
complicated? Tough to make sense out of it?
Well,
maybe its something to be experienced………
Get Totally Butt-naked
BE YOU, STAY
REAL People change their personality when
their environment changes or when they
are around different people. Don’t be that person! Be confident of who you are
regardless of the situations,
environments, and people. Be you . Be
genuine. Be real. Avoid projecting
illusions. At the same time, be the best of you. Stay real throughout the
entire relationship! The worse thing in
a relationship is having your partner know you are pretending to be someone
you are not. No one likes to be emotionally attached to illusions. An illusive you taint genuine feelings, thoughts that make up a real relationship. Keep the relationship
real and genuine. Give the real you a chance to be liked. Find out if your
partner likes the real you before you are emotionally invested in the relationship.
Stop trying to be someone you are not! Immerse yourself in that soothing
naked feeling of unpretentiousness,
genuine purity……. which is what love is
all about…..that floaty frothy whip
cream …
STRONGER BOND = BETTER SEX
Sex as a pure physical act is incredible
on its own. However, with a
strong connection between sexual partners, sex can be simply mind
blowing! Infuse love and be totally
open with the person to increase intensity, sensuality, and
meaningfulness. Feel better physically
and emotionally. See sex as an act of
unification with two bodies moving as one.
If sex were a number, love would be its exponent! A strong emotional bond equals better, more
satisfying, more complete sexual
experience
Communication Is Super Glue
COMMUNICATE YOUR
FEELINGS, COMMUNICATE YOU
Communicate
honestly about your wants and needs, your feelings and thoughts, and your
expectations. Let it out! Tell your partner what is in your head and your
heart. Fulfillment in any relationship equals
communication. Work together
towards mutual happiness and compromise through honest genuine communication
with your partner. Just open your mouth
and your heart!
COMPANIONSHIP IS KEY TO THAT MAGIC
QUESTION
We
were so easily overwhelmed and infatuated with good physical looks or
incredible sex. And how often we substitute those for true chemistry in a
relationship ? Beauty fades, bodies change, sexual energy diminishes over
time.. So what truly holds up a relationship? The big answer is small things. Small everyday things.. Would
u enjoy watching tv and eating popcorn together ten years from now? And
would you live together and work
through your differences on a daily basis?
Project if you will feel the same way about each other 10 years from now
while shopping in the same grocery store.
Think about spending every day together as companions and walking
through the same path everyday for the rest of your lives. Consider if your
strong sense of companionship will last the test of time. It is the chemistry.
The chemistry of little things.
Companionship
is the key to that perfect marriage.
Never let the situation mean more than the relationship-
n
Infatuations versus true relationship
Situations
come and go, but relationships are for the long term. Keep that in mind as
various situations, positive and negative,
pop up throughout a
relationship. In the earlier stages, do not be infatuated by your partners abnormal good behaviors and
attitudes. And don’t get upset by frequent
petty small arguments in the latter stages. Don’t start second guessing
your decision to make a go at it with your partner. Understand one another better through the different situations
you go through. But, don’t let a
temporary situation color your perception of the entire relationship. Take a step back. Don't look at your relationship through the lens of the
situation. Determine what new things
you learned about yourself and your partner. Then look at the chemistry and how
it affects the entire relationship. Improve your perception so that future
similar situations won't cause you that misunderstanding and nausea
feeling. Its how you see the
relationship that matters, more than
the fluffs and squeaks of the moment!
Never let the situation
mean more than the relationship
\ Trust First and Last
The bedrock of any relationship
Every
house, building or skyscraper was built first and foremost with a strong
foundation. In relationships, that
foundation is trust. Trust is the
lubricant that creates that special
chemistry. Have trust in your actions and communication with your
partner at all times.. Earn trust while you are dating. Give trust freely once you are in a
relationship. Don’t try to control the
thoughts or actions of another person.
Don’t get fixated on trying to figure out everything the other person
doing. It doesn’t matter. Give them your trust, and they should
validate your trust is well placed.
Trust them and you will find peace of mind. Pulling away that trust will only cause uneasiness, awkward
moments, tense and pretentious feelings
that will erode the relationship over time.
However, make them earn that trust first. Then give that trust to them
when the time is right, when your bond is established. Trust for eternal relationship……
You
mean u don’t fancy my green toe nails to your
tropical rainbow finger nails?
COMPATIBILITY COUNTS!
•
Why waste time figuring out who that special someone is when all it takes is a few clicks away on
the web? Compatibility testing can assist with matching you up with someone
else using criteria that makes long lasting and happy relationships.. Maybe u
think u would like a partner with similar personalities ? Or someone with
different characteristics and temperament? Be ready to be surprised ! Try some relationship test apps at Facebook.
Read the article found with the link below for an in-depth look at
compatibility tests and if they are for you. The Truth About Compatibility Testing
truly compatible…
My
lower left shoulder aches…..and scratch that right belly while u are at it….
All relationships need cultivating
Cultivate
Goodness and Fun
Relationships take time, effort and
patience. So be resolved to set aside
that time for careful planning and reflection.
Decide that you will not be mad at the same situation twice. Actively learn about what makes your partner
pleased or pissed. Ask your partner
what you can do more or less of to ensure their happiness and stability in the
relationship. Celebrate little
relationship successes and make big deals about the major anniversaries Come out with fun ideas to do the little and
big things together. Experiment with things both of you love doing and things u
both dislike doing. Make it challenging, insightful and hand-gliding. Nurture
your relationship with affection, love and time together. Keep communication, patience, and trust at
the forefront!
Cant u go a little lower? J
More
than just digging ears and karate chopping the butts
FUN IDEAS The Thrill Zone
Looking for a few fun ideas to improve
your relationship? Try these! Get a
pack of post-its, write a special message on each sheet a paper, then put them
everywhere! Give your partner a
"your wish is my command" night!
Blind-fold you partner and surprise them with a variety of their
favorite foods! Write poetry or a hand-written
letter expressing how you feel . Once a month, do something special for your
partner! Send flowers for no reason at
all. Plan a surprise trip. Bring home
their favorite desert. Schedule dinner
at their favorite restaurant. Make a
candle light dinner at home. Pack a
picnic for the park. Attend a play or
concert. Bring them breakfast in bed.
Try an activity neither of you have done before. Try searching the web
for new ideas.
Be
adventurous! Be bold ! Be different each time!
Keep it fun at all times! That sweet chemistry deserves that extra
juice!
Charity is the new sexy!- Doing charity together…
Ahh… something
happens when both of you get on that rocket ship ! That rocket ship to a new
unknown, a different feeling…
.a Unique
tinkling…….mesmerizing….
Charity as new sexy……giving
them away
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Congrats to all who finish the whole book!
Below is a directory of websites we carefully hand picked. We only show u the relevant and most useful sites. We don’t aim to become a massive directory of selfhelp sites. Just the sites u need to be super!
Discover: == Personality, Values, Purpose
www.selfgrowth.com is a very very comprehensive website on almost all areas of self help.
Has tons of personality tests, websites, articles, gurus etc
Shouldn’t be too tough to find the personality and iq, eq and a comprehensive sets of tests u need.
❑http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Warfield3.html Solid, decently organized Q&A about personality and applying it to life.
❑ http://insightgame.org/game.php “The Insight Game.” Flip the cards in a game that takes about five minutes to self-critique your actions and tendencies for an accurate personality-type assessment. Mediocre graphics but a solid assessment and copy.
www.Monster.com About U Report is a personality test that is highly recommended as it is powerful and explanative.
However it is not free.
http://www.mypersonality.info is recommended for the personality test
www.Eharmony.com has a personality test as well as compatiable test for finding your soulmate.
www.41q.com== free and gd for simple personality test based on 4 factors
SUPPLEMENTARY RESOURCES: http://www.outofservice.com/bigfive/ A thorough, 48 question test that requires no sign-up/email address and offers immediate results in the “OCEAN,” major five dimensions of human personality. Gives very thorough, very readable results. Aesthetic isn’t incredible but information is so helpful it doesn’t matter.
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp. Close runner up for high quality. The aesthetics of the site/test are somewhat crumby and unrefined, but the information is totally valid, informative and leads you to more specific “type descriptions” by D. Keirsey and J. Butt. You get a “Strength of Preference %” for how extraverted, intuitive, feeling and judging you are. No email/sign up required.
http://similarminds.com/personality_tests.html Although it is really a no frills, black and white site, the site has an entire library of tests that all produce clear-cut results. Tests include: Personality, Big 5, Enneagram, Compatibility, Physiology, Non-Serious, Intelligence, Multi-Perspective, Right Left Brain, etc.
** There is also lots of free Facebook and apple iphone apps for self discovery
Improve:
www.Answers.com www.Wikihow.com www.liveperson.com answers.yahoo.com
These are 4 gd sites to ask any qn and get a answer. Good for learning a skill or improving an area. You could ask any expert on any topic of interest
www.oprah.com = gd site that covers all aspects of life- lots of gd articles
BODY, MENTAL
www.gnc.com www.vitaminshop.com www.peacefulmind.com = all these 3 sites have directory of explanations for vitamins and herbs , and minerals for just health preservation or various treatments of physical or mental ailments.
In our extensive research, a good organic multi-vitamin that contains all vitamins, irons and minerals, herbs and antidioxant vegetables and fruits is all u need. This keeps ur blood healthy and free of cancer.
Ear Candling with bee wax candles keeps u healthy as it removes waste and bad residuals in your brain and body for smoother blood flow. This , though not scientifically proven, is very important for stroke prevention as it prevents clogs of blood due to residuals. And it also removes the bad impurties. Blood flow blockage is a very common problem due to naturally born narrow artilleries that could contribute to strokes.
Once a wk or once a mth makes you breathe and sleep better with nice circulation of blood flow. Try it, especially those who smokes a lot.
www.webmd.com== very gd on all kinds of health issues, especially the section on mental heath is very solid- a great SITE!
MIND IMPROVEMENT
Elements of the MIND to improve
and syllabus for Independent thinking college degree
Degree: 1. independent thinking – requires a logical mind = a gd education
2. Charter schools
apple education apps = games= fun education
freedom writer and k12
syllabus details for eduapp: English writing heavy focus, SAT, math, stats, game theory, marketing, pr, ads, sales/negotiation, public speaking, mgmt skills, excel/word, acctng/finance/economics/global trade, peoples skills/communication, career/humanresource
www.selfgrowth.com has tons of tests and improvement articles and techniques for both left brain, right brain improvements below.
Please chk it out!!!
LEFT BRAIN
Speed read
Memory
LEFT BRAIN
<Iq, analytical ability, organizational ability, prioritizing ability=- ALL these equals problem solving skills>
<logical reasoning & math/statistical reasoning versus intutive experienced based reasoning.>
www.wordofmouthexperiment.com - full of tests and great article on improving various aspects of the mind
RIGHT BRAIN
http://e-ii.org - emotional iq education
Emotional IQ, Tact and Tone, Learning to ASK the right way and ANSWER the right way, being socially sensitive and having empathy, working with teams.
Creative thinking for out of box solutions, being artistic and practicing IMPROV, having gd imagination
Humor
LEFT BRAIN
being disciplined, organized, keeping momentum to finish on time, self motivating
clear communication in writing and speaking === wwww.hodu.com
BOTH RIGHT AND LEFT BRAIN
sales, presentation and persuasive skills, marketing skills in both speech and writing, storytelling skills
LEFT BRAIN
Courage to admit mistakes, face the issue quickly and correct swiftly
Listening skill, patience
Positive thinking and confidence
Prioritize, focus, simplify
Mood swings, anger management, stress management,== staying objective and unbiased and balanced
Mind relaxation and creativity music, flower essence
Being 100% productive, live life to the fullest, asking and delegating help.
PASSION: (work or play) Find that passion based on YOU- your purpose, personality
FIND A CAREER THAT FITS U
www.Monster.com About U Report is a personality test and career fit test that is highly recommended as it is powerful and explanative.
However it is not free.
www.bls.gov == show different industry info and job types within those industries.
www.livecareer.com=== lots of tests – personality , IQ, passion etc**
CareerOneStop ***free tests on personality and others
and O*NET OnLine.
For detailed industry information, visit the Competency Model Clearinghouse.***
PLAY – find any hobby, passion
www.Peak.com for more extreme sports
TRAVEL AND EXPLORE and WORK or VOLUNTEER while traveling
SUCCESS
These 2 sites have super comprehensive info ad articles for job hunting, career advice and advancement, continuing education, climbing the corporate ladder etc VERY powerful sites on achieving career success.
ENTREPRENEUR
www.entrepreneur.com this site is a so comprehensive it really is bar none for entrepreneurship. The only site u need.
The below 2 sites are specifically for inventors.
LEADERSHIP AND MANAGEMENT TECHNIQUES
www.selfgrowth.com - search for “leadership” on the site and u gets tons of great sites and articles
SALES, MARKETING, ADVERTISING
HELPING:- 4 gd sites f\or seeking advice or giving advice -
www.personalcoach.com- a great site for self coaching
COACHING, TEACHING, MENTORING AND PARENTING
www.selfgrowth.com - search for “coaching” on the site and u gets tons of great sites and articles
www.vocationvacations.com - career mentoring
www.freedomwritersfoundation.org for teachers
www.suas.ie - a great site on education, coaching worldwide
COLLABORATION- how to collaborate efforts successfully in any wiki, guidelines, coordinator, teamwork
“Crowdsourcing” is a great bk on the topic
CHARITY
Below are 3 sites that u could immediately make u super and it wont cost u any money or much effort.
www.change.org probably the number one social activitist site and it is easy! vote on a wide range of social issues and the site will send the users votes to the governemt officials and demands change. Cant find an issue that concerns u, then create an issue u care about and let the users vote and make it happen! Note down any social issue that bug u in life and go on the site to get the public to vote on bringing about changes.
www.idealist.org- probably the number one site for volunteer listing and non-profit jobs directory. Lots of forums for discussions , ideas and tons of collaboration on social issues and volunteer opportunities.
www.causecast.org - a new web2.0 style on charities. Join a charity that focus on a cause u care about and collaborate with others.
www.one.org - probably the oldest social activist site and the very first site that lets u vote on issues with just 1 click. .
www.procon.org- a fairly big site that forums all discussion and debates regarding hot and controversial current social issues
www.responsibilityproject.com
www.globalethics.org
these 2 sites focus on personal ethics as well as corporate ethics. Gd sites to research moral and ethical dilemmas.
www.microplace.com - what about lending money to someone, make 5% a yr and still do tons of good? This site helps u loan money to emerging countries like Africa, on a one to one basis, and is SEC registered. All only a few clicks away!
www.kiva.org - similar to microplace except it is not SEC registered, don’t pay u a interest, but is very popular among the web2.0 crowd. Probably the front runner of microfinance.
www.charitynavigator.org - lets u check to see if the charity u are donating money to are qualified, efficient and audited. Have a ranking for all charities.
www.charitychannel.com www.currenttv.com = these 2 sites have great video content on social, charity issues
www.globeaware.com- travel, have a great fun, adventure and help people!
www.vitaminangels.org - this non-profit org. provides vitamin pills to stop hunger and lack of nutrition! Multi –vitamins is a cheaper, more efficient alternative or supplement to food, in solving hunger. Jamba Juice did that research on their juices.
www.ansafrica.org - artists selling all kinds of their works such as tshirts, artworks etc and donating the money to various causes in Africa.
www.charityhappenings.org - a site that promotes charity parties that matches your interest. Take a look!
LOVE – take a test of your personality and see what kind of soulmate are compatiable to your personality type
www.Eharmony.com eharmony ‘s Labs and Advice have tons of research and great articles,. Personality and Compatiability test pretty solid
www.Perfectmatch.com Free Personality and Compatiability tests available but a bit short in summary.
There is also a lot of Facebook apps to test relationships and personality fits
END OF INDEX OF USEFUL WEBSITES
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Credits of this idu project
Lee Ang – Structure ,
Content, Architecture
Mat Donovan – Content, Blurbs
creativity, Content Style, Presentation, Philosophy A precocious genius in the
creative. Cant wait for his future works.
James LeGrand- Content,
blurbs
William Ang – Edit, Control
Ang Family for funding this
project
Lauren Huang for Creative and
Edit on Chinese version.
David Kanegis and Nina Uppal
– ideas and writing
MeowMii Inc &
friends and FatCat & Urchin Incorp.
And EVERYONE who contributes
one way or the other- you know who you are
This initial 6 mth project
started in early 2007 evolved into a 3 yr project for many reasons. Main reason
being revising it numerous times
To focus on
effectiveness of the content on the
average busy ADD audience.who hates reading
AND also
Developing a STRICT blue
print where the public can reference the issues needed to create
A Perfect World
Of peace, harmony and true
happiness.
This first try will be
considered still in beta mode and no
doubt welcomes public opinion
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Covey, Stephen (my addition)
Dealing with Difficult People Brinkman & Kirschener
Me to We Kielburger, Marc and Craig
Mind Your X’s and Y’s Johnson, Lisa
Developing the Leaders around You Maxwell, John
The Emotional Intelligence Quick Book Bradberry & Greaves
The Power of You! Martineau
Positive Energy Orloff, Judith
The Power of Self-Coaching Luciani, Joseph
The 8th Habit Covey, Stephen
Relationships 101 Maxwell, John
Leadership 101 Maxwell, John
The Secret Byrne, Rhonda
Be the Change! Nunn, Michelle
What Color is Your Parachute? Bolles
Developing the Leader Within You Maxwell, John
The Art of Seduction Greene, Robert
[Life 101] Day-Lewis, Geoffrey
90-Minute College Major Matcher Shatkin
Guerrilla Marketing for Job Hunters Levinson & Perry
Guerrilla Publicity Levinson, Frishman & Lublin
Zag Neumeier, Marty
The Five Dysfunctions of a Team Lencioni, Patrick
Micromessaging Young
Self-Scoring Personality Tests Serebriakoff, Victor
6 Steps to Free Publicity Yudkin
The 22 Immutable Laws of Branding Ries & Ries
25 Ways to Win with People Maxwell, John
Life’s Missing Instruction Manual Vitale
The Leader’s Guide to Storytelling Denning
Thin, Rich and Happy Nance, Wayne
Do You Know the Real You? Gordon, Clair
Winning with People Maxwell, John
You, Inc. Beckwith & Beckwith
Energy Addict Gordon, John
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On TImeline of Idu
Timeline, History, and whats new - idu
On Education-
Educating Morals and Ethics is about Simplicity -Yes! Michael Jordan can truly fly!
http://iduidu.blogspot.com/2012/10/is-sales-and-marketing-ultimate-savior.html
Is Sales and Marketing the Ultimate Savior to our Education System?!!
the Ultimate Ethics & Moral Education - Improv Theatre !??
Teaching Success and Good Morals in 60 days?! The age of Simplicity ......bringing back that lemonade stand
Teaching Success and Good Morals in 60 days?!- Part 2
Speed Reading and Speed Writing with superman, w/ anti-Kryptonite lasers
Simplicity Wins in Education - the single most powerful Word to teach success and good morals?!
The single Superhero Skill one could ever have... Even Superman cant beat this
Paying Students to attend school ?!
LifeSkills for Success- only for the privileged?!
http://iduidu.blogspot.com/2016/03/the-problem-on-affiliation-hereditary.html
The Problem on Affiliation - The Hereditary, Impossible Hurdle to a Perfect Moral Society?
The Problem on Affiliation - The Hereditary, Impossible Hurdle to a Perfect Moral Society?
On Future of Work, Perfect Team Chemistry, & “the Enabler” to solve ALL Problems
http://idu1.blogspot.com/2015/12/ending-era-of-failures-why-good-ideas.html
Ending the era of Failures- why good ideas fail....the Perfect Team at a single click of a button- the non Star Trek approach
http://idu1.blogspot.com/2015/12/ending-era-of-failures-why-good-ideas_31.html
Ending the era of Failures- why good ideas fail....the Perfect Team at a single click of a button- PART 2
Future of Work = Aligning one's Passion and Life Purpose with Work
http://idu1.blogspot.com/2015/12/future-of-work-aligning-ones-passion_31.html
Future of Work = Aligning one's Passion and Life Purpose with Work - Part 2
How we got it all wrong in Gamification - the only One Variation that works
Finally, The Enabler to solve all social problems
On Charity and Non Profit Leadership-
Why Charities are getting it all wrong! Matching Passion to Charity
Revamping the Charity System with Passion Inc- is having maximum FUN the ultimate Savior to all Social Problems?!! Part II –Why Charities are getting it all wrong!
Matching Passion to Charity - Part 4- Finally, web platforms that combo "Passion, Cause, Skills" to solve all problems
Non Profit Leadership - Ambitious the totally Unambitious ?!!! You cant be serious.....
Non Profit Leadership - Ambitious the Unambitious PART B
the Super Lazy is truly Super! Charity the Lazy way
On Solving Hunger-
Super Serious Solution in ending world hunger - Yes Seriously Serious
On Solving Homelessness-
This is the article to end the word ”homelessness”?!!
The Math of Ending Homelessness - the undiscovered Marketer Testimony -PART 2
On Saving Animals-
SOLVING the Animal Shelter Problem
http://iduidu.blogspot.com/2013/10/solving-animal-shelter-problem-part-2.html
Solving the Animal Shelter Problem-Part 2-Super Scrabily Scooby !
Solving the Animal Shelter Problem-Part 3. Single Best Idea- Cafe all Sanctuaries into Magical Kingdoms!
On Solving Traffic issues-
http://idu1.blogspot.com/2015/09/catch-that-cyclist-it-could-save-your.html
Catch that Stormtrooper-Catch that Cyclist! It could save your life
Is 25 miles per hr really enough for ZERO VISION - the Irony here.....
Driving 20 Miles Per hr Speed Limit (not 30!!)in Suburbs to Save Lives!??!
Solving Traffic Gridlocks without a penny
Solving Traffic Problems
On Economy-
How to REVIVE the local small business economy in a recession and start a entrepreneur boom!The Triple win win win approach! The -new business SWAP OPTION-strategy
On Healthcare and Optimal Physical Performance-
Knowing the Yin and Yang of your food is more than just watching kung fu Panda -it could save your life?
Music - Boost Your brain Power without any Effort or a Penny
The needed Multi-Vitamin pill for Students to Succeed
Lose Weight Without a Sweat or a penny!
Ear Candling - Awesome Health Benefits
On Happiness and Purpose-
IDU "6 Steps to Happiness" QUICK SUMMARY - 5 seconds to instant bliss…..but even 5 seconds is too long for a superhero!
http://iduidu.blogspot.com/2012/03/idu-6-steps-to-happiness-part-1.html
Idu "6 steps to happiness" ==part 1
idu "6 steps to happiness" ==part 2
idu 爱嘟! HAPPY秘笈 - 幸福 秘诀 part 1
idu 爱嘟! HAPPY秘笈 - 幸福 秘诀 part 2
du 爱嘟! HAPPY秘笈 - 幸福 秘诀 part 3
http://iduidu.blogspot.com/2012/09/idu-happy-part-3.html
idu 爱嘟! HAPPY秘笈 - 幸福 秘诀 part 4
http://iduidu.blogspot.com/2012/09/idu-happy-part-4.html
idu 爱嘟! HAPPY秘笈 - 幸福 秘诀 part 5 final part
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