Monday, March 30, 2020

Correct any misunderstanding at end of each day - Make Habit - Part 2 of "The Most Important Element for Harmony- MIND SET"

No, we do not need that playful BB8 electrical jolt to remind us!

At the end of a long day's of hard work, we often feel overly  omplacent, tired and not in the mood for
the single most important task of the day. And that is to correct any misunderstanding that occurred during the day, from any arguments, soft or hard conversations, any actions wrongly perceived.  It is important to make this Habit, so to eliminate any snowballing effect or contagion , that could harm or destroy any relationship.

Yes, even 1 day late is too long!

From the article we published in 2018,

The Most Important Element for Harmony- MIND SET. No Yoda speak needed!

https://iduidu.blogspot.com/2018/12/the-most-important-element-for-harmony.html

it elaborated on having the proper Mind Set- treating everyone as family -  at all times, being mindful in all our speech and actions, especially during times of  stress, emotional arguments, or during natural,  playful moments.

We sometimes abandon this  Mind Set   during a Natural flow of rhythm, such as during happy, joyous occasions and moments. And it is during these exact times that we commit that careless, insensitive, causal comment unknowingly- one that engenders misunderstanding.

It is nothing wrong to joke around, to  have fun, but once you sense any discomfort or misunderstanding in others, always correct them by end of each day-and with text messages, it is much easier ever than before.

So always be Aware, Observe, and Correct.

Be Aware of the proper Mind Set in all circumstances of speech and actions.
Be Observant always,  to notice any discomfort or misunderstanding in others.
Correct immediately - by end of day- through swift explanation on misunderstanding and  ask for forgiveness.

Any good relationship is too precious to risk one day late!