Tuesday, December 15, 2020

"Even Baby Yoda can use THIS ! Overcome Your Fears, Guilt" - Addition to "Teaching Morals in 60 days!?" Part 1, 2, 3

 

Yes, Baby Yoda may seem all powerful.

But he does have short arms and doesn't walk very fast.

Thus in times of immediate danger, 

come this wonderful idea of  PRESS.

 "just Press that app!" 


Welcome back fellow readers, for another episode of Good vs Evil, the Rise of Baby Yoda.

Ever since we published "Teaching Good Morals in 60 days?! "

Part 1, 2, 3  from 2013 to 2017,  we wanted to revisit the Fear and Guilt section to give it a more complete addition and to suggest a few practical ideas to overcome the two.

We will not repeat what we published in  those article, so please review here if necessary for this article. 





Changes:
On Fear, there are 8 reasons  to commit wrong off  fear, below is a more complete list compared to previous.:

1. Fear of Confrontation ( could be due to lack of courage, laziness or indifference)

Fear of disorder/chaos   (likes to maintain peace, uncomfortable of disorder)


2. Fear of Abandonment(rejection, alone, separation) 

 3. Fear of punishment-blame 

4. Fear of loss of Material : tangible and intangibles

Fear of loss of tangible Material  : wealth and property, 

Fear of loss of intangible material: Fear of  loss of privilege/hobby,

fear of loss of  freedom, fear of not having time,  fear of  work and responsibility


5. Fear of losing Exclusivity- greed, pride, winning/failure, status, influence, ego,respect.

 6. Fear of discrimination (exclusivity) 

7. Fear of being ridiculed (exclusivity) 

8. Fear of Safety- for self, love ones, affiliation

Fear of death (safety), pain/torture  (safety), imprisonment(freedom) 

Besides the above edit/changes, all our previous ideas  would hold.  We just want  to discuss here number 8 of fear :the fear of safety.

All the first 7  of fear can be managed successfully through experience and practice to prevent wrong doings, but number 8 on Safety we recognize is a difficult one under the scenario where one's life is threatened to commit wrong doings. 

Thus this PRESS idea.

Press an APP   under the scenario of imminent danger to your safety- and all info and location data

will be relayed to the proper authorities to send help immediately.

Different degree of danger can be programmed into different APPs as well.

Even under ALL scenarios of non emergency,  non emergency APPS can be still made available for Anonymous Consulting, so one can  be advised on all the options and alternative help available BEFORE  one commits a wrong.  The APP should be as Simple as one click with no other typing needed.

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On the section of Guilt, below is latest edit to make it more organized to read:



1.Guilt to oneself or others on owed favors == solution is to negotiate for compromise
 
2.Guilt  to oneself or others to amend previous wrong === solution is to talk oneself out of it, should not  do a wrong to fix a wrong, may worsen situation as one could be dealing with two wrongs.

3.Guilt of missing an opportunity or previous opportunity= solution is to remind oneself to do no wrong for greed/exclusivity.

4.Guilt of affiliation (family, friends, organization) =====solution is to negotiate  for compromise. 

***Guilt of Affiliation is the toughest one to overcome due to problem of loyalty. We have written 
extensively on this  



One important addition to add here is the same PRESS APP strategy we mentioned in the Fear section above can be readily applied here in Guilt.